MrBrightside
January 29th, 2012, 07:18 AM
This is kind of two questions in one, so read all the way through it! :P
Okay, so; A friend of mine said, in a seemingly half-joking way, a few months back, that if I'd not lost my virginity by the age of 21, she'd take it from me. At the time, I kind of laughed it off as a joke.. although there was actually some truth behind what she was saying. A week or two ago, she brought it up again;
Girl:
haha the deal we made about arrangements regarding your 21st birthday
and your virginity :P
Me:
oh right, that.. :P
ermmm
Girl:
you realise im semi joking right ###? :P
Me:
hahah :P
semi-joking? :P
Girl:
well obv i would never force you to have sex, but if you really wanted it to happen, i'd be a good friend and help you out :P
Honestly, I'm not sure how I feel about this.. Half of me wants to say no and run away. But then, the other half of me quite likes the idea, and if I'm honest, finds it quite exciting. I've always been close to her, and trust her. And she's not exactly bad looking either.
Now.. two days ago, me and my friend were talking about her, and he managed to drop out that she works in a strip club, while she's at uni. I already knew that she worked on the promo team for a strip club, handing out flyers and adverts. But what I didn't know is that recently, she's actually been taking a couple of shifts a week, actually inside the club, as a "dancer".
I'm under the impression that my friend was the only person that was supposed to know about it, and I'm not really sure if I should bring it up or not. I'm guessing that the reason that she hasn't told me, is that normally, I'd react fairly badly to something like that. However, strangely enough, I'm not actually that bothered by it! (And hell, it pays well for a student.. and if she's brave enough to do it, a job is a job I guess..)
What's stranger still, is that the whole idea of losing it to her suddenly seems to be a lot more appealing?
I'm really not sure what to do though!
Okay, so; A friend of mine said, in a seemingly half-joking way, a few months back, that if I'd not lost my virginity by the age of 21, she'd take it from me. At the time, I kind of laughed it off as a joke.. although there was actually some truth behind what she was saying. A week or two ago, she brought it up again;
Girl:
haha the deal we made about arrangements regarding your 21st birthday
and your virginity :P
Me:
oh right, that.. :P
ermmm
Girl:
you realise im semi joking right ###? :P
Me:
hahah :P
semi-joking? :P
Girl:
well obv i would never force you to have sex, but if you really wanted it to happen, i'd be a good friend and help you out :P
Honestly, I'm not sure how I feel about this.. Half of me wants to say no and run away. But then, the other half of me quite likes the idea, and if I'm honest, finds it quite exciting. I've always been close to her, and trust her. And she's not exactly bad looking either.
Now.. two days ago, me and my friend were talking about her, and he managed to drop out that she works in a strip club, while she's at uni. I already knew that she worked on the promo team for a strip club, handing out flyers and adverts. But what I didn't know is that recently, she's actually been taking a couple of shifts a week, actually inside the club, as a "dancer".
I'm under the impression that my friend was the only person that was supposed to know about it, and I'm not really sure if I should bring it up or not. I'm guessing that the reason that she hasn't told me, is that normally, I'd react fairly badly to something like that. However, strangely enough, I'm not actually that bothered by it! (And hell, it pays well for a student.. and if she's brave enough to do it, a job is a job I guess..)
What's stranger still, is that the whole idea of losing it to her suddenly seems to be a lot more appealing?
I'm really not sure what to do though!