friends

[green]

so i have a friend, liam, and we have alot of sleepovers. i told him that at a sleepover i experimented with a guy and we talked about it and he said he wouldnt do anything like that. then i sent him a text asking if he wanted to stay at my place and he said yea as long as theres no gay stuff. wtf how could he say that. what do ya think was he in the wrong?

[Auzzie 94]

He's probably homophobic. Just ignore it man, heck who knows he might even be trying to cover up the fact the he himself is gay? Who knows man.

[hollisterboi95]

Yeah, Bro don't worry too much about it. He's homophobic and is scared or nervous to experience something like u did. He might actually be scared by the fact that he'll actually want to do stuff if you were to start fooling around with each other.

[mfupi2]

Neither of you were wrong. He just thought that because you mentioned that you had messed around with another guy on a sleepover that you wanted the same from him. He likes you as a friend, so he said yes to the sleepover, but he doesn't want to mess around, so he let you know. No harm, no foul.

[artist2894]

Yeah just ignore it. My friend used to be like that a lot after i told him i experiment. He eventually stopped caring and we'd actually make jokes about it. after a few months tho, we actually got to the point of being able to openly talk about that stuff.

[Electra Heart]

Well, he's probably a homophobe... or he secretly DOES want to experiment and thinks it'll make him less of a man... blah blah blah. If it were ME, I'd call him out on it and give him hell, but it's your choice.

[danny7]

He's homophobic or deep in the closet.. And he probally doesnt feel confortable about it so just dont try to do anything, even tho [if u r gay like me] it is very hard to try not to tink about it.. but just try

[LuckyLuke]

No, he wasn't in the wrong.

You said you experimented at a sleepover
You then invited a friend to a sleepover

What did you expect him to think! It's like connecting the dots. If you said you were hungry and then said you were going to the store, I'd assume it was for food! He simply stated that he wouldn't want to be involved in a sexual situation with you, that's it. He wasn't insulting you, he wasn't belittling you.

Relax dude, neither of you are in the wrong.

[crustbag]

lol u should wait in your room in ut boxers and see how he reacts......4 real though hes homophobic

[Pipercub]

probably just making sure u didnt try anything idk//

[Saxophone 44]

He might not be into experimenting, and was sort of alarmed that you asked him RIGHT AFTER you talked about trying stuff with another dude. He might have just worded it wrong. Forgive him. You obviously trust him if you guys have had sleepovers before. He was just caught off guard, or he was making a light-hearted joke.

[MaliciousBunface]

No, he wasn't in the wrong.

You said you experimented at a sleepover
You then invited a friend to a sleepover

What did you expect him to think! It's like connecting the dots. If you said you were hungry and then said you were going to the store, I'd assume it was for food! He simply stated that he wouldn't want to be involved in a sexual situation with you, that's it. He wasn't insulting you, he wasn't belittling you.

Relax dude, neither of you are in the wrong.

This. It seems a bit...well suspicious? As people have said, he might be homophobic. Or he just doesn't want to be subjected to 'gay stuff'.

Either way, hope you had fun? Haha

[wildmanjesse]

Yeah I would just leave him alone he will prob crack sooner or later

[Lakai]

homophobic

[Tonebone88]

That is really rude of him. He's probably just homophobic. You should tell him how offensive what he said is to many people.

[Trinity_15]

He might be homophobic, and you brought it up. He might just be frightened that you will attempt something.

[Rayquaza]

hes probably either not into it or the small chance he is homophobic. my advice would be if you want someone to experiment with, stay away from this one

For future reference, we didn't have to know his name

[Irishperson15]

Hes still ur friend man just doesnt wanna do that srta stuff

[muddygrand]

he is more then likely just a little weird-ed out by the topic. That or he is just giving you a hard time about it.

[Short Circuit]

Not everyone experiments, and it looks like your friend was a little taken aback by what you told him. He is cool about having another sleepover, so dont push the subject, or it will put him off being friends with you.