Casual Sex with a somewhat "friend"..

[Auzzie 94]

I met a lady who is almost 34, I used to see her alot at the supermarket up the road from my house and we occasionally would wave and then after a few months it grew to the occasional chat, in one of our conversations she had a problem with a powerpoint not switching off in her house she asked if I knew anyone who I could recommend for her to get to come fix it, I explained I could because my Dad was an electrician and I knew some basic things, anyway she took me to her house, I fixed it, she offered me some lunch. We ate and had a chat, after that it became a regular thing. We talked about private stuff which she was open about. One thing led to another, and we ended up getting a little intimate.. Now I feel weird because she has an ex husband who is still in love with her and has 2 kids (one is a year younger than me, they live with her ex husband) she does not want to get back with her husband at all and she told me that she wants casual sex, we've had intercourse before but she wants it to be a routinely thing. I'm not sure if I should see her anymore because I don't want her husband or kids ever finding out. Last thing I want is for some 30 something year old man trying to kill me because i'm sleeping with his ex wife... any advice?

[Christheman]

Do what ever makes YOU happy and you wont be punished

[kenoloor]

Do what ever makes YOU happy and you wont be punished

That being said, you must also use good judgement regarding your safety. If you feel that your safety is threatened, get the hell out of that situation.

[Auzzie 94]

That being said, you must also use good judgement regarding your safety. If you feel that your safety is threatened, get the hell out of that situation.

Thanks mate, yeah I was thinking more along the lines of being safe. Not sure just yet, i'm probably going to give it some time before I completely decide.

[kenoloor]

Thanks mate, yeah I was thinking more along the lines of being safe. Not sure just yet, i'm probably going to give it some time before I completely decide.

Talking about it with her would probably be a good idea as well.

[Manga]

This thread made me smile/grin.

As long as you talk to her about your concerns and eventually think the pros outweigh the cons, I don't see a point in stopping.

[Auzzie 94]

Talking about it with her would probably be a good idea as well.

I'll give it a go, and see what she thinks, thanks for the advice guys. I'll post back what happens after I talk to her about it.

[Auzzie 94]

I went over to her house for the usual but instead I asked her on her opinion her advice to me was not to worry about her ex, and that him and her kids will never find out. Still unsure of what to do :\

[Mortal Coil]

If you were her kid, would you want to know that someone a year older than you was fucking your mom? She wants to have casual sex with you. That's good for her. If you do it, that's good for you because you're getting action but also bad cause you seem to be terrified of her ex. And it's bad for her ex and kids because when- not if, they most likely will- they find out, they will feel betrayd by her and will hate you.
Not saying you shouldn't do it, but look at the biger picture. Stay safe kid. :)

[Auzzie 94]

If you were her kid, would you want to know that someone a year older than you was fucking your mom? She wants to have casual sex with you. That's good for her. If you do it, that's good for you because you're getting action but also bad cause you seem to be terrified of her ex. And it's bad for her ex and kids because when- not if, they most likely will- they find out, they will feel betrayd by her and will hate you.
Not saying you shouldn't do it, but look at the biger picture. Stay safe kid. :)

I'm not terrified of her ex I've recently seen photos of him, he's not the "scary" type of bloke I imagined. How can they feel betrayed if she's made it clear that their relationship and their marriage is over?

[crustbag]

dude dont stop doing "it" with a hot mom lol thats beast lol

[Jupiter]

wait.. how old are you?

[Auzzie 94]

dude dont stop doing "it" with a hot mom lol thats beast lol

Not the answer I was looking for but I lol'd.


wait.. how old are you?

18........?

[hiei]

I would say go for it! I mean not every guy gets an invitation to have sex with an experimented woman.. If I were you, I would've gone several times already.. lol


it is not a must, you can decide whether to go or no.. in case you do go make sure that nobody else knows about it.. also remember that this is not a serious relationship (what i'm telling you is to not get emotionally attached) at the end she/you will find someone of the same age..

[Auzzie 94]

I would say go for it! I mean not every guy gets an invitation to have sex with an experimented woman.. If I were you, I would've gone several times already.. lol


it is not a must, you can decide whether to go or no.. in case you do go make sure that nobody else knows about it.. also remember that this is not a serious relationship (what i'm telling you is to not get emotionally attached) at the end she/you will find someone of the same age..

Yeah lol we've already done it more than several times and I've agreed to keep seeing her for a while.

I won't get emotionally attached and neither will she, she's not what i'm looking for in a partner. I've had sexual relationships with friends my own age before and I haven't felt anything for them and all of them are still good friends with me today. So yeah, i'll continue doing what i'm doing and make sure it doesn't get out. Thanks guys!