Someone I thought I knew

[Princess Ariel]

So there is this one girl that I've known for quite some time.. 5 years or so.
When I first met her, I was led to believe she was a genuine and caring person.
We'd always have fun.
Lately she's being very rude to me and treating me like I'm invisible.
If I were to make a new friend, she'd have to have that same one.
It feels as if she wants me to be alone.
She wants me to suffer.
I can never be alone with a friend, because she'd always come over and expect us to let her into the conversation.
I'd be arranging something with a friend, she'd over hear across the room, come over and complain to us that we didn't invite her.
She always pushes me around (literately)
She'd complain to me about things I can't change, I say that I can't change that and she'd tell me to go and fix it.
She complained about the light being in her eyes a couple times, but she'd the one who sat their, and she expected me to move over.
I moved over as much as I could, but she was still in the way, so she proceeded to tell me to get up and move.
I was their before her, so why should I move to please her?
She expected me to take the bus with her after I made the statement that I can take basically any bus to get home. The bus that we both can take came up, and she said "Yay you can come home with me", while I had 3 other choices.

Whenever I stand up to her she calls me a bitch and complains to everyone.
She wants me to be a loner she just does, she's actually put my life in danger by "accidentally" bumping into me thus pushing me onto traffic
Why should I deal with her bullshit?
I can't escape it, she follows my every move.

[Desuetude]

Wow that's sounds like a tough situation. I think the only choices you have is to talk to her about it tell her how you feel and to leave you alone. Or maybe teacher could get involved and sort things out.
You shouldn't have to deal with her, the way she is being towards you when she is meant to be a friend is not right. If she calls you a bitch when you stand up to her just think about what it will be like if you keep going and get away from her. Just try and find a quiet place where you can talk to her and noone is going to disturb you.
I think you need to fins some way of getting away from her because it's nit doing you any good being. "friends" with her. You have to stay strong and positive just think about how much better things will be without her. :)

[Princess Ariel]

I tried talking to her and she just brings me down, or she texts someone for her to have backup.
I honestly do wish to be far away in contact with her, but I have 3 classes with her, and she follows my every move. Bitches to me if she did the same thing last year. She has no respect for me, but sure as hell for everyone else.

[Desuetude]

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Do you have any ideas about why she targets you? Have you ever done anything to her that could have caused this?
The fact the she has to "call for backup" hen you try and have a decent conversation with her how's you just how weak and cowardly she is.
You don't need respect from people like that, it might seem like you do now but honestly. As long as you have respect for yourself and keep your head held high then she can not get to you. Just remember that.

[Princess Ariel]

She targets be becasue she is led to believe i'm stealing all her friends away. I've made new friends, we invite another person over and then she thinks we invited her to.

[Weeping_Angel]

Wow, that sounds like a difficult situation. But it all depends on whether the other people follow in her lead or in yours. If they are all on your side, than they will be your friend. Ive had friends that have stabbed my back before. One even slept with my ex-boyfriend. I am not saying that you should start a war, but that you should discuss this problem with your parents and try to get them involved.

[Desuetude]

She targets be becasue she is led to believe i'm stealing all her friends away. I've made new friends, we invite another person over and then she thinks we invited her to.

Are there any teachers at school you trust enough to talk to about it, maybe they could help? Or any of your other friends, maybe try and find out what they think about her, get them on your side and stay close to them. Try and block out this other girl as best you can I know it's hard but maybe after a while she will get the picture and just keep away from you.

[Princess Ariel]

Are there any teachers at school you trust enough to talk to about it, maybe they could help? Or any of your other friends, maybe try and find out what they think about her, get them on your side and stay close to them. Try and block out this other girl as best you can I know it's hard but maybe after a while she will get the picture and just keep away from you.

No teachers they all ready have a grudge on me because i'm not afraid to tell it how it is..
If I block her out, she'll still continue to bitch at me. I tried this her response was "Fine be a bitch and ignore me, for fuck sakes Casey. Stop being a pussy"
I ran out of the room in my tears.

[fire and water]

No, you shouldn't have to deal with that. Stand up for yourself, change roles for a day or so and make her feel the way she makes you feel. As for the other friends that she's taking away from you, talk to them and make them understand what she's doing; if they choose you're friend over you, their really just not worth you're time.

You're knife my back; my gun you're head and such:)

[Desuetude]

Wow this is tough, well you said your not afraid to tell it how it is, maybe you could just tell her what you think of her, take some other friends along for moral support and just say it to her face.
Maybe if you get it all out you will feel Better and she will know what you really think of her, you can't just let her get away with treating you like that, it's not right and you deserve way better.

[Princess Ariel]

Wow this is tough, well you said your not afraid to tell it how it is, maybe you could just tell her what you think of her, take some other friends along for moral support and just say it to her face.
Maybe if you get it all out you will feel Better and she will know what you really think of her, you can't just let her get away with treating you like that, it's not right and you deserve way better.

If I were to take some friends I'll be called "The cowardly lion"
The makes a big deal out of one thing out of place. She actually has been texting me death threats, and death wishes.

[Desuetude]

Casey, you can not accept tht from anyone even someone who is meant to be considered a friend I mean death threats that's just taking it way to far. You need to tell someone, anyone that could stop it, even a teacher. Keep the texts so you have evidence if she denys it.
Most importantly don't listen to her, don't even read them. She is being childish and she will my act upon them. You honestly do need to make it stop though. I'm sure friends would help at this stage.
You do not need to die, you deserve to be here and no one has the right to tell you otherwise.

[Princess Ariel]

[QUOTE=MyOblivion;1594222 Keep the texts so you have evidence if she denys it.[/QUOTE]

I'll start to safe them now. When she sends them to me, I automatically delete them to restrain myself from wanting to hurt her.

[Desuetude]

I'll start to safe them now. When she sends them to me, I automatically delete them to restrain myself from wanting to hurt her.

Yes you need to keep them, I know it will be hard having them there but if people get involved they will want evidence and she is almost certainly going to deny sending them.

[Princess Ariel]

Yes you need to keep them, I know it will be hard having them there but if people get involved they will want evidence and she is almost certainly going to deny sending them.

Okay. I'll do that.
Once I get one I tell the office.

[Desuetude]

Okay. I'll do that.
Once I get one I tell the office.

The office? at school?

[Princess Ariel]

The office? at school?

The only place I can.
I've been going their almost everyday because of a different issue.
I can't tell any family members, becasue well.
They can't help me since the ones that would help me are in a different country. They aren't back till March.

[Desuetude]

The only place I can.
I've been going their almost everyday because of a different issue.
I can't tell any family members, becasue well.
They can't help me since the ones that would help me are in a different country. They aren't back till March.

Do they not do anything about it?
I think if you can hang on until March that is going to be your best bet, if you really can't i think the only other thing you can do is to stand up to her.
I say just sit tight, only for anouther month until you can get some real help not these people who do nothing. Its only a month away now, just keep your head held high and don't let her know that she is hurting you.

[Princess Ariel]

Do they not do anything about it?


They just tell me to ignore her, but it's hard since she follows me.

[Desuetude]

They just tell me to ignore her, but it's hard since she follows me.

Well then i think all you can do is wait, im sorry in not more help :(

[Situations]

Casey.
Stick up for your rights.
I will come to where you are, and help you get through this no matter what's at stake.

[Princess Ariel]

She's still doing it, but through Facebook.
She called a worthless prick,and a waste of space.

[Desuetude]

She's still doing it, but through Facebook.
She called a worthless prick,and a waste of space.

Like I said, keep the messages and stay strong, don't let her bring you down and don't listen to anything she says, god she really must be dumb if she doesn't know why you ignore her.

[Princess Ariel]

Like I said, keep the messages and stay strong, don't let her bring you down and don't listen to anything she says, god she really must be dumb if she doesn't know why you ignore her.

I have them saved in the messages.
I didn't respond, and she then of course called me a pussy for not facing my fears.
When I was actually Rocking out to music, ignoring her.

[Desuetude]

Well good for you, don't give in to her threats and be your own person. :)

[OzGirlRachael]

That's a hard one. u rly need to find someone u trust to talk to about it and get help. I liked the way u were just rockin out - her reply i think means she is upset with something.
But find an adult u trust to talk to and get help.

[Princess Ariel]

That's a hard one. u rly need to find someone u trust to talk to about it and get help. I liked the way u were just rockin out - her reply i think means she is upset with something.
But find an adult u trust to talk to and get help.

I talked to the guidance counsellor today called down this person.
They person said they were hacked.

[Heatbomb21]

I talked to the guidance counsellor today called down this person.
They person said they were hacked.

MY FREEZING, SHINY ASS!

I've seen things like this before...frankly, I don't underdtand why it happens, but don't let this person make you feel bad at all because you're "not facing your fears" If anything, tolerating her at all is facing her enough. I see no reason for human being to antagonize anybody. Absolutely not like this. It has gone beyond out of control with this person.

Just keep up what you're doing. Don't respond in any way to her empty insults or threats etc. They are absolutely meaningless. May her ass be chewed off by a kangaroo.

[Princess Ariel]

MY FREEZING, SHINY ASS!

I've seen things like this before...frankly, I don't underdtand why it happens, but don't let this person make you feel bad at all because you're "not facing your fears" If anything, tolerating her at all is facing her enough. I see no reason for human being to antagonize anybody. Absolutely not like this. It has gone beyond out of control with this person.

Just keep up what you're doing. Don't respond in any way to her empty insults or threats etc. They are absolutely meaningless. May her ass be chewed off by a kangaroo.

Yeah. Sad thing is. I have to deal with her for a group project in drama tomorrow. She wasn't asked to join the group. She just came over. Expecting me and the other 2 girls to just let her in.
Then in class today, she was yelling at me since I ate something without her permission first.

[Heatbomb21]

When you're taking care of business, do what you need to do, and nothing else. If she tries to call you out during the project, focus strictly on the work needed to be done and cooperate when needed. If she refuses to cooperate, let your instructor know so that possible new group arrangements can be made.

And she has no right to tell you when to eat. Unless she's a cannok. Then I'd try and get outta there.

[Princess Ariel]

When you're taking care of business, do what you need to do, and nothing else. If she tries to call you out during the project, focus strictly on the work needed to be done and cooperate when needed. If she refuses to cooperate, let your instructor know so that possible new group arrangements can be made.


She doesn't care for my opinion, she never has.
Even when mine mattered the most.
She once said "Casey no ones listening just shut up"
So I did. I feel as if she controls me when i'm around her.
That I have to please her before me.

[Heatbomb21]

Right. You two used to be friends...

Maybe your response to her actions are caused by a deep wanting to restore this friendship. Maybe something has happened to her that she's too insecure too talk about. That could be why she continues to shut you out.

[Princess Ariel]

Right. You two used to be friends...

Maybe your response to her actions are caused by a deep wanting to restore this friendship. Maybe something has happened to her that she's too insecure too talk about. That could be why she continues to shut you out.

It's only me though.

[Heatbomb21]

True, though nobody acts like this without reason. I think there's something blocking her from acting the way she should.

[Princess Ariel]

True, though nobody acts like this without reason. I think there's something blocking her from acting the way she should.

But I don't care. The way she makes me feel. She actually pushed me out of the way today.
I was in no ones way but apparently hers.

[Heatbomb21]

Then there's clearly a problem with her.

You've done nothing out of line.