Str8 Boy needing anal advice...

[jordanmichael]

Ok so I have a girl friend and we have a sexual relationship. She knows and is fine about me and my male friends whom often jack off and blow job one another (we are all str8 and do it for fun). One of my mates wants us all to do anal, so I asked my GF how she would feel about me doing it and shes fine about it.
I really want to do it but was wondering if it hurts and if it is ok based on the situation above...

[mfupi2]

First, how sure are you that everyone is straight? What you're describing sounds more like there's a bisexual or gay guy there. But that's more of emotional support because I know there are some straight guys out there that like to have anal sex with their guy-friends.

About the sex: Firstly, are you more interested in topping or bottoming or do you want to do both? It can hurt when done wrong. Anal sex requires more foreplay than vaginal sex. So the top will need to finger and/or rim the bottom until his anus is more relaxed, then use plenty of lube.

[fivefive]

Use lube and be gentle to begin with and it will be quite pleasureable.
Make sure you are/he is clean inside and out or it can be a little unpleasant.
Have fun!

[Irishperson15]

LOL dont try to convince yourself your straight after having anal sex with another guy and come on man, u have a gf it dsnt matter if she approves it or not

[Electra Heart]

I would guess it depends... everyone's different in size and what not... if you want to try it. If you don't like it, stop.

[Tonebone88]

I've heard that it's pretty painful, especially the first time, so make sure you use lots of lube and it shouldn't hurt as much. But, it apparently feels very good as well. As for the circumstances of this whole thing, I guess its ok for you to have anal with your friends since your girlfriend is ok with it. It's technically not cheating, but it is a little weird that your girlfriend is ok with this. Plus its a little weird for you to be having sex with another guy because its seems unlikely that this guy is straight.

[Evancosta]

Well I'm sure the first time you do it it would hurt but it feels better as it progresses, I've been told

[dkp123]

it's hurt's first time, everyone say's that... just use plenty of lube, and use a condom, you could catch loads of things

[disguy15324]

Um.. I don't really know about all of your friends being straight, but oh well. Thats besides the point. I'd listen to what the guys above are saying.. I mean it really will differ depending on if you are going to top or bottom.. and the whole girlfriend aspect is sort of strange too.. but hey, who am I to judge? Have fun and don't do anything you don't want to..

[leafgreenangel]

i would say do it but be sure to use a condom!!! and your friends are very open... i need to find friends like that

[hollisterboi95]

Just do it if you want, maybe your GF really isn't okay with this but she says she is becauseshe doesnt want to hold u back. Anyway, bottoming is for sure goig to hurt the first time and well the top it's like normal sex.

[jordanmichael]

Thanks for the advice I have decided not to do it after your comments purely due to the fact that I should be focusing on my relationship with my gf. Thanks again :D

[Irishperson15]

Ur rite man ;)

[matt25]

you may regret it

[Christheman]

Use a lot of lune whether you are giving or taking

[Christheman]

You bi from what you described btw

[Jstr]

I don't think you should have anal sex with a guy when you have a sexual relationship with your girlfriend!

[vtadam]

U made the right decision

[Jupiter]

I don't think you should have anal sex with a guy when you have a sexual relationship with your girlfriend!

basically this.

your girlfriend just told you "it's okay to have cheat on me!"

[Jake777dylan]

Dont let them not use lube I've heard it hurts like crap lol have fun

[senior.2013]

It will hurt at first, go slow, relax, and use lube.

[Jay_Team_Swagg]

I wouldnt reccommend it but if u want use PLENTY OF LUBE ive never tried it but i guess it can be pleasurable

[The Flash]

Sounds like fun, just dont be too aggressive. but make sure ur GF is legit okay with it

[johnnyreb]

if your having anal and doin BJ's, then YOUR GAY or BISEXUAL!!!! No straight guy does that to his friends!

[Angel1293]

just take it slow if you do it but im pretty sure that falls under that category of cheating

[Aidoon123]

Wouldnt doing that stuff with other guys make you gay? Like its ok to maybe J/O eachother once to experiment but to consistently do this stuff .. i wouldnt say your 100% straight

[justinglives]

And oh yes........first time is always....errrr......uncomfortable.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Thanks for the advice I have decided not to do it after your comments purely due to the fact that I should be focusing on my relationship with my gf. Thanks again :D

Yup! Good decision. When my best friend and i became b/f's we stopped playing with other people. it's been really good since.