Crush problems

[arthur1]

Sorry this is so long but here we go...

There's a girl I like. A lot. She and I used to talk on Facebook every night and I was planning to ask her out, but when the rumour got around that I liked her she all of a sudden became very distant. Then I made the mistake of saying I wanted to speak to her because I wanted to ask her something (I think she's worked everything out) and we haven't spoken since. Ive tried to speaking to her on chat on Fb a few times when she was available but soon after she went offline. But the thing is I still really like her and think that if we did start something would work.

What should I do? :/

[Saxophone 44]

I hate it when that happens. I was texting this one girl, trying to juice out how exactly to ask her out the next day (at school, teaching her how to throw a football with the question written on it, etc.) but then she said "Talia told me that you like me. Is that true?" I said yes, and then she said she had to go. What I did was just do everything all over again. It's like a video game: you get screwed once, try again. Get screwed twice, rage quit.

[christianteen]

Once those 'crush' rumours get out you're pretty much done for. Unless you really do like one another, then you can get though it. Besides, as soon as the next rumour gets out they'll totally forget about you and this girl.

[Jupiter]

Well, it sucks. You just have to send her a facebook message making her aware that you like her... and only her.

[Martin22]

Try and talk to her face to face, then she can not ignore you. Tell her how you feel. Good luck

[MysticalBurrito]

Don't corner her, give her time to think and get over the freaked out feelings she has. From a girls perspective.