My mum found out i cut but not from me :(

[Dark_Desires]

So i got home after shoping and i used my mums phone to check facebook and she went thru my account and found my messages telling a friend i cut and she just spoke to me about and i dont know what to do i am so scared.What do i say to her what do i do.

[Christheman]

Did she accept you? Wanna help you? Or did she yell and call you worthless and whatnot?

[Love.Hate]

Well how did she react?

Maybe its better that she knows, so she can help you. Take this as a good thing, you will be able to get the support you need :) Dont be scared, it'll be okay

[Dark_Desires]

Well she asked me to come in and i did she said has there been more on your mind lately she asked if i was anxious and deppressed then she asked if i cut so i said yes and she found out thru me telling someone on facebook :(.Then she just tryed said sry and she said want to get your own doctor she wasnt mad and she hasnt said much since just asked were i cut and how long ago.So she wasnt mad.

[Love.Hate]

Well its good she wasn't mad at you, remember she only wants to help you. You can now go and talk to her, Let her support you

[Dark_Desires]

Yeah but what do i say i am so scared and how could she do that to me go thru my stuff

[Desuetude]

I don't think it was right for her to go through your own accounts I mean you need your privacy but now she knows and there is nothing you can do to change tht but talk to her about why she did it, she was probably just worried. Don't shut her out, talk to her about what you are feeling and she I there to help you now, you don't have to go through it alone anymore.

[Dark_Desires]

Thanks for the advice guys and i will talk to her its been driving me crazy not telling her

[georgiamay]

It might not have been the best thing for her to do, to go through your account, but it's happened and there's nothing you can do about it now. My dad came across my diary and found out that way. I was furious at first, but I moved on.

All you can do is be honest with her. She wants to help you, so talking to her about why you do it, why you started and what triggers you to keep doing it will help. It'll help her to understand so she can support you, and it'll help you to get everything out. It's quite releiving when you finally tell your parents things that have been bugging you. If she wasn't angry when she found about you were hurting yourself, she won't be angry or react badly when you talk to her about why you do it.

Good luck with everything :hug3:

[Weeping_Angel]

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[Christheman]

Yeah!!! So she accepts you this is BEAUTIFUL!!!! Good luck bro!!!

[jbraud]

dont be afraid of it. she wants to help you, and now that she knows, the best thing to do is be open with her. the same thing happened with me and my mom sorta. and to me it was scary cause i didnt know how she would handle it. but now i'm extremely glad she knows. now i dont have to worry about hiding anything. it's a good thing in the long run.

[Jupiter]

I'm so glad you are being honest with her. She deserves to know the truth. I wish you the best of luck, and make sure that you keep us updated, okay?

[Dark_Desires]

My mum hasnt spoken to me much except asking a few questions and saying she will help me get my own doctor and she also spoke to the person whos been helping me.But i am still unsure weather i should make the first move and tell her everything ?.

[jbraud]

if you're not sure what to do, ask her to sit down with you one on one, and just let her ask any questions she may have. that way you can give her the info she needs, comfortably, instead of just divin into an awkward conversation about it.