Help for You

[DirtyDog78]

Don't feel sad if you got a problem.
-If you had a fight with your friends:Talk it over with them. Find a solution
-Fight with your parents: Say you are sorry and learn from your mistakes.
-Thinking of commiting sueside: Tell your friends or parents. They will always be there for you.
-Feel like hurting yourself: Don't do it. It wont help/
-Being bullied: Find help. Talk to a friend, parent, or councelor about it. They will help.
-Feel everyone hates you: There is always space for you in everyone's heart. Dig your way in.
-Worried what people think of you: Ignore them. There is no one more special than you.
-Feel your friends want to hurt you: If they try to hurt you, then PLEASE tell someone than you can trust about it. Go to "Family and Friends" section on VT to find out how to make new friends.
-Feel your girlfriend/boyfriend is cheating on you: Ask them in short questions, not directly if you know what i mean.
-Love someone and don't know how to tell them: Make chat and try to get their attention.
-Don't feel secure with yourself: Don't worry. Many people that criticize do it to feel better.
-Feel angry and don't know how to relieve that anger: Make a letter about what you are mad about and rip it and throw it in the trash.
-Want things that you can't have: Don't steal to start with. Be proud of what you have.
-Your friends want you to do something you don't want to do: Tell them "No" and leave them alone regardless of what they say.
-Want to make friends: Be nice and respectful around people. Don't lie to make a good impression.


Hope this Tips Help You!!!!
(-If you got more advice for other people, Post it here and I'll add it to the list)

[Desuetude]

Hey I think its a good try but some of the things up there are a little bit insensetive for example:
-Being bullied: Ignore them and move on.
This sounds like its come from someone who has never been bullied because if you had you would know that its almost impossible to just ignore them, they come for you even when you do nothing for them therefore moving on is not an option enless its all been sorted and even then its still very hard.
I'd say talk to someone about it, a friend, a parent, anyone before it gets any worse and even if it isnt to bad don't just ignore it, if they make you feel bad then you need to make them stop and the only way thats going to happen is if someone else is there supporting you and helping you though it. you dont have to go though it alone.

-Feel your friends want to hurt you: Leave them alone and find new friends.
Yes this may seem like a good idea but some people on VT come because they find it hard to make friends and need help with the friends they have. You cannot just say to someone leave them and go find some people that will accept you immediatly.
I'd say if you friends want to hurt you, talk to them about it, if they are friends they should listen and try and help in any way possible. if they don't then maybe they weren't the people you thought they were and only then should you think about trying to find someone you can trust and rely on. Just don't give up so easily.

The rest i'd say are ok but just be careful about what you put could help people because for all you know it could make some things worse.

[DirtyDog78]

Ok thanks. Ill change it as soon as possible. :)

oh, and i have been bullied for so much. mostly my whole life. the only year i wasn't was in 5th. only for like half a year

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[Desuetude]

oh, and i have been bullied for so much. mostly my whole life. the only year i wasn't was in 5th. only for like half a year

Im sorry to hear that but just think about how it feels for you. Is there any way to ignore it and it will go away because maybe thats why you've been bullied your hole life because you think it will go away.
Get some help, talk to people that you trust just like it says now ^. I promise it will help, more than trying to pretend its not happening anyway.
If you just need someone to talk to about it then i'm here, it says in your sig "you chat, I'll listen" maybe you need someone to listen to you as well.

[DirtyDog78]

Yes. Now that I'm in 8th I ignore people and stand out for myself. This is a good year so far because i haven't been bullied so far because i have 3 friends that i can trust with my life. They are always there for me and they even told me some of these advices. People who get bullied are most of the time: shy or scared of what people think of themselves and they feel that they aren't important. What I always tell people that are like all alone and they seem to need someone to talk to, I speak to them even though i don't know them. I was that same way, but i figured that i have someone special inside me. Some people need to be guided there. Maybe that is why i am not being bullied. Oh and because i moved school so its a fresh start.

[Moxie]

Many of these are unfortunately presumptuous.

If someone wants to commit suicide, what if their parents/friends are NOT always there for them?

The only fights I have had with my parents were sparked by my father's alcoholism and abuse. I will never, ever apologize to that waste of space for as long as I live.

Just a few things to keep in mind.

[Mortal Coil]

You post this as only a true optimist could. You think things are that simple? People who have fights with friends at least have them. If I tole my parents I was suicidal they'd probably throw me out of the house, in case when I do I spill blood on their precious floor.

Most of us are feeling depressed because your suggested solutions are NOT realistic options.

[Jackymonsta]

100% acurate Hey I think its a good try but some of the things up there are a little bit insensetive for example:

This sounds like its come from someone who has never been bullied because if you had you would know that its almost impossible to just ignore them, they come for you even when you do nothing for them therefore moving on is not an option enless its all been sorted and even then its still very hard.
I'd say talk to someone about it, a friend, a parent, anyone before it gets any worse and even if it isnt to bad don't just ignore it, if they make you feel bad then you need to make them stop and the only way thats going to happen is if someone else is there supporting you and helping you though it. you dont have to go though it alone.


Yes this may seem like a good idea but some people on VT come because they find it hard to make friends and need help with the friends they have. You cannot just say to someone leave them and go find some people that will accept you immediatly.
I'd say if you friends want to hurt you, talk to them about it, if they are friends they should listen and try and help in any way possible. if they don't then maybe they weren't the people you thought they were and only then should you think about trying to find someone you can trust and rely on. Just don't give up so easily.

The rest i'd say are ok but just be careful about what you put could help people because for all you know it could make some things worse.