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Texas warrior
January 27th, 2012, 01:52 AM
Ok first, I have been home schooled for most of my life, so naturally I have never had a girl friend.
But there is this girl on my street. Whey back when, when I was 12. We would kiss on the side of my house.:wub: But then she stopped it. No clue why. Then thee years late she lets me get past first base to second base repeatedly. If we are hanging out, and she asks me to get her some chips, I do it. If she asks me to hop naked through the woods, I do it. Typical boyfriend stuff right, but one day I asked her if she thought that we were boyfriend and girlfriend she said she did not think that. But the problem is I am not just physicality attracted I head over heels in love with her.


How would you define this?
I have spent 3 months trying to figure this out and I can't, so pls help me out.

botwa
January 27th, 2012, 07:13 AM
it all sounds like sex interest, I mean only interest in sex for the girl.
don't know
if you hung out with her more and didn't do all this stuff, just talked and had fun, I would say that this relationship had rational base but other way I couldn't say that.

Mortal Coil
January 27th, 2012, 08:43 AM
Honestly, it sounds like unrequited love on your part, and she is taking advantage of the knowledge that you love her to get favors out of you or embarrass you.
I know you love this girl, but I think she sounds heartless and manipulative

Texas warrior
January 27th, 2012, 12:21 PM
Honestly, it sounds like unrequited love on your part, and she is taking advantage of the knowledge that you love her to get favors out of you or embarrass you.
I know you love this girl, but I think she sounds heartless and manipulative

Heartless and manipulative, you have never met her and you described two key aspects of her. I know I am being made a fool of but I still love her so, ....I guess I just go on like it is. Or do I, I mean I am being taken advantage of?