What would I be...?

[newyorker19]

Okay, this is definitely another one of those "Am I gay or what?" posts. I know they're repetitive and annoying, but this has been on my mind for awhile.

So, I honestly don't know if I'm gay, straight, bi, etc. I'm completely emotionally attracted to girls, like I want to get married to a girl and have kids and the whole nine yards. I'm not emotionally attracted to guys at all.

But when it comes to what I'm sexually attracted to, I am much more attracted to guys and I don't know why. I think both genders are attractive, but if I'm watching porn, gay porn is much more appealing than straight porn. I can picture myself sleeping with both genders, but only having a committed relationship with women.

So now that I've said all this, it sounds like it actually comes down to bisexual or gay. What do you think?

[Hugger]

U sound bi to me, but not straight. A lot of straight guys watch gay porn, don't worry about that.

[Jmihas]

Hmm you may be bi curious maybe?

[Biscuithead13]

Yeah you sound curious because in order to be bi you kinda have to be emotionally attracted to guys as well.

[starbrite5]

Emotional/romantic and sexual attraction don't match up for everyone. You could be a heteroromantic bisexual, but honestly why bother putting a label on it? I know labels can be very helpful. However, sometimes the language just isn't there to articulate how you feel, and there's nothing wrong with that.

[Rawiyah]

Personally, I like to avoid labels,
I honestly think it sounds to me like you could be curious, which, isn't bad. But when it boils down to it, love doesn't have a label to me, and neither does sexual attraction, really.

If I loved only people with freckles, I don't think it would make sense for me to have my own label for people only sexually attracted to people with freckles. But, that's just my opinion. In all honesty, it sounds like bi-curiosity.

[Mortal Coil]

Honestly, when you're a teenager you just want to have sex all the time. once your hormones settle down you'll realize that your sexuality is what it is and that's not as big of a deal as it may seem. If you're bi, go for it., we don't choose who we fall in love with.

But I honestly just think it's hormones right now, I know that I've felt that way about girls, even though I'm not a lesbian.

[kenoloor]

Emotional/romantic and sexual attraction don't match up for everyone. You could be a heteroromantic bisexual, but honestly why bother putting a label on it? I know labels can be very helpful. However, sometimes the language just isn't there to articulate how you feel, and there's nothing wrong with that.

But when it boils down to it, love doesn't have a label to me, and neither does sexual attraction, really.

I'm another one of those non-label people. It really doesn't serve a purpose besides segregation, even it it's a subconscious thing.

Enjoy exploring your sexuality now; don't worry about labels. As I've said countless times in this forum, do what feels right. Fuck labels.