mrwhite1994
January 26th, 2012, 04:22 PM
As the title said, I'd like to know why this certain friend of mine is acting the way she does
So I'm a sophomore and the girl I will be referring to is a junior. I'll call her Girl X for privacy. So here goes.
It all started last year when I was a freshman and Girl X was a sophomore. I as a freshman obviously was new to our high school, and she was a transfer student so she was to to our high school too. We became friends and we did as friends did, eat lunch together, hang out in our free periods, and talk to each other whenever we could through texting and phone calls for hours on end. Then around the month of April, I felt that we had become so close friends that I might want to become more romantically involved in her life. She was an amazing person. Our tastes in art and fashion and sense of humor and personalities were completely compatible.
Then one day, completely out of the blue, she didn't show up during our usual lunch period. I thought that she wasn't there that day, so I tried to contact her after school via text message. She didn't answer. She always answered. The next day she still didn't show up during our lunch period nor our free period. I passed her in the hallway and tried to talk to her, but she said that she had to run off somewhere. So I just shrugged it off and left her alone. She practically didn't want to be friends anymore. She ignored me for months.
Then the summer of 2011 came and went. On the first day back to school in August, we hugged when we first saw each other and she acted like nothing had ever happened. For that day. I tried texting her again later that day hoping to rekindle our friendship, but then she responded "Hey. Who's this?", which meant she had deleted me from her contact list.
Then just yesterday, she showed up in my lunch period, and started talking to me again.
I don't know how to feel exactly. Should I be grateful that she wants to be friends again, or angry that she tossed me aside and had the audacity to almost erase me from her life?
That's why I believe that women are the universe's ultimate mystery.
So I'm a sophomore and the girl I will be referring to is a junior. I'll call her Girl X for privacy. So here goes.
It all started last year when I was a freshman and Girl X was a sophomore. I as a freshman obviously was new to our high school, and she was a transfer student so she was to to our high school too. We became friends and we did as friends did, eat lunch together, hang out in our free periods, and talk to each other whenever we could through texting and phone calls for hours on end. Then around the month of April, I felt that we had become so close friends that I might want to become more romantically involved in her life. She was an amazing person. Our tastes in art and fashion and sense of humor and personalities were completely compatible.
Then one day, completely out of the blue, she didn't show up during our usual lunch period. I thought that she wasn't there that day, so I tried to contact her after school via text message. She didn't answer. She always answered. The next day she still didn't show up during our lunch period nor our free period. I passed her in the hallway and tried to talk to her, but she said that she had to run off somewhere. So I just shrugged it off and left her alone. She practically didn't want to be friends anymore. She ignored me for months.
Then the summer of 2011 came and went. On the first day back to school in August, we hugged when we first saw each other and she acted like nothing had ever happened. For that day. I tried texting her again later that day hoping to rekindle our friendship, but then she responded "Hey. Who's this?", which meant she had deleted me from her contact list.
Then just yesterday, she showed up in my lunch period, and started talking to me again.
I don't know how to feel exactly. Should I be grateful that she wants to be friends again, or angry that she tossed me aside and had the audacity to almost erase me from her life?
That's why I believe that women are the universe's ultimate mystery.