Friendship...more than friends?

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Due to me leaving, I hall delete this.

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I hate to do this but I really need an answer...*BUMP*

[ShredtheGnar]

I have a similar problem, I've just tested waters a little as my friend too is really flirty. We like to lay in bed together sometimes and cuddle a little, but I don't know for sure if he is just flirty or if he's trying to tell me something!

[Sterling26]

^ if you're laying in bed with him and cuddling, he likes you. trust that.

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I have a similar problem, I've just tested waters a little as my friend too is really flirty. We like to lay in bed together sometimes and cuddle a little, but I don't know for sure if he is just flirty or if he's trying to tell me something!

Lucky! I've never cuddled with anyone. In fact, sometimes when I hug him he's perfectly fine with it; unless the principle or vp's see.

[ShredtheGnar]

^ if you're laying in bed with him and cuddling, he likes you. trust that.

Theres more to it though, I have a post on the first page of teen sexuality if you want to understand it better.

Lucky! I've never cuddled with anyone. In fact, sometimes when I hug him he's perfectly fine with it; unless the principle or vp's see.

Do you both have sleepovers? If so, do you stay in the same bed?

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I wish we had sleep overs. Never been to one though. :( if he had coffee (lol) he'd act weird and try to sleep with me. XD it's so cute when he's like that sometimes. Umm...
No, and I tried to invite him to a sleep over but he said it would be gay. I don't think he's like, homophobic...but if I tell him I'm bi..I most likely won't be able to hug him anymore. Which I do to everyone.

[ShredtheGnar]

Well I work at a coffee shop so I could send you some coffee if you need it ;)

I see what you mean, though. Maybe try asking him what exactly is gay about a sleepover? It's always nice to get out of the house, and how else are you supposed to have a cover for when you start going to parties?

[ShredtheGnar]

You've read my post so you can understand how difficult this sort of thing is. Just don't try making him uncomfortable and be patient. I've been trying to figure out what my friend wants for three years, and lately it's becoming much more clear.

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Lol, ok true. :p I'll be patient. And send that coffee OVA! XD next time I talk to him, I'll post here 'bout it. Btw: I've only known him for 1.5 yrs, and he trusts me more than anybody. :$ that makes me feel happy.

[Gordo]

When he says a sleep over is gay, i'm thinkin' that he just thinks it's stupid, not homosexual.

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No, I...hmmm...the way he said it is it I guess. I mean, it's hard to explain.

[Christheman]

Say in a cool guy to guy way what he thinks of bisexualty and go from.there : )

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Yeah, ima find a way to do that, but it'll take time. :p gotta think of a way to slip it into a conversation.

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Btw: I don't know if this is important, but I know he's had a girl friend before. :$

[ShredtheGnar]

Say in a cool guy to guy way what he thinks of bisexualty and go from.there : )

I've been contemplating if I too should try this, and I think I might just go for it. But you have to make sure the timing is right, don't just randomly ask it.
Btw: I don't know if this is important, but I know he's had a girl friend before. :$

Ask him how far he got with her, it might have been just a cover?

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I've been contemplating if I too should try this, and I think I might just go for it. But you have to make sure the timing is right, don't just randomly ask it.


Ask him how far he got with her, it might have been just a cover?

Sorry for the late response. Umm, the relationship lasted 1 month and the girl ended it.

So, I talked to him yesterday and since exams are over we get 3 days off. But...he's FAR too busy to hang out with me (volounteering for extra hours for a scholarship). I'm upset with him because we've only met after school twice (despite being in all the same clubs). So, I ignored him at school today (Even though I won't see him for the next 3 days) and went home. Sadly, I still love the guy but he's so difficult sometimes. He says that his Mom is making him and that he wants to see his old friends again (who he volounteers with). Naturally, I felt unwanted seeing that he cares more about sustaining his onld friendship then developing a new relatoinship with me. :(
Oh yeah, not to mention he kind of ignored me after he finished his exam today.

So, am I being selfish? I feel that I am...but think about it...we've only seen eachother twice (as in hanging out one on one). D:

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I guess, at times I wonder if he cares about me. :/ I would be less upset if he didn't always blow me off for other ppl. :(