I'm gonna die after this xO

[Spook]

So, I told my bff that I thought her mom was a bitch after she confronted me at a party, and when I left my bff told her mom what I said. Now I am grounded for a month, I have to write an apology letter, and spend my whole allowance on something to say I'm sincere. Do you think this is fair? On top of that, the woman won't let me hang out with my best friend.

[Hugger]

That sucks. First of all, your best friend isn't such a "best friend" for telling her mom that you said that. She may have confronted her mother in order to stand up for you or something, but it backfired.
I don't find it entirely fair, but that's what some parents do. For example, I'm not aloud to hang out with one of my friends who is a really nice person.
Hopefully her mother will calm down a bit and think about it, then allow you to hang out with your friend again.

[ImCoolBeans]

I don't think its fair that you need to spend your own money of a gift for her to bribe her back. However, you definitely should apologize - its the right thing to do, and the letter is a good idea.

[DaylightDusk]

Doesnt sound like much of a friend just saying. Why would she tell your mom and i would tell her to gtfo just saying

[Desuetude]

I'm sorry, in my opinion if she is going to backstab you when she is meant to be you friend then she is not much of one. The fact that you said that her mum was a bitch to her was maybe not the smartest move, i mean its fine when you call your own family names but when other people sart doing it people tend to get very deffensive. The apology and the letter are good ideas mayeb it will clear the air but the fact that you have to spend all your own money as well as being grounded for a month is just pathetic. Maybe if your parents don't know where you keep your money then hide some of it and just say you don't have very much. The grounding im sorry there is not much to help with, just try and keep yourself occupied it should all blow over soon.
Maybe the fact that she is not letting you see your friend is a good thing, i mean if she was such a snitch on you then try and make some new friends, i know its easier said than done but if she is going to treat you badly then surely you dont want her in your life?

[killert252]

So, I told my bff that I thought her mom was a bitch after she confronted me at a party, and when I left my bff told her mom what I said. Now I am grounded for a month, I have to write an apology letter, and spend my whole allowance on something to say I'm sincere. Do you think this is fair? On top of that, the woman won't let me hang out with my best friend.

Well,
I don't think it was polite to call her that.. no matter what,
Respect your elders.
Treat others as you wanna be treated.
I do think that the buying something " Sincere " is a bit over the top..
but the letter or an in person apology is reasonable.

[DirtyDog78]

I sincerely think that was wrong. Apologise. and say u are sorry. There is nothing better than a good apology.

[killert252]

I sincerely think that was wrong. Apologise. and say u are sorry. There is nothing better than a good apology.

Agreed!
As i stated in my Comment above (:
^_^

[Christheman]

She isn't a true friend and you should not have to spend your own money... how unfair!

[Djentleman]

The letter I agree with. The spending of money I strongly disagree with. You can't buy respect, love or any emotion. Your friend is an idiot and should of confronted you like any real friend would of done instead of go behind your back and tell her mom. For that, I wouldn't trust her for a while. He has the ability to sell you out without her conscience kicking in gear and that means red lights.

Just give the letter and tell your friend you can't hang for a while until the air is clear or whatever the term is. No money spending!

[Abyssal Echo]

I don't think its fair that you need to spend your own money of a gift for her to bribe her back. However, you definitely should apologize - its the right thing to do, and the letter is a good idea.

I agree totally with I'mCoolBeans on this one :D

[TeddyBearRock]

Well the appoligy letter is alright it's aiming you should do.

And don't worry about your BFF their not you friend if they snitch on u

[Gizzie]

Yeah, apologize to the mom. Respect your elders.

But your friend telling her mom that you said that shows that she is not someone you want as your best friend anyways...

Dont spend your allowance on this matter. A letter is way more than enough.
But make sure you make it personal and really mean it, not the generic I'm sorry i will never do it again BS.

Once that's done, if I were you, i would keep my distance from this girl.
Maybe not right away, but remember that this is the way this girl acts...

[Caver]

Of course if you didn't like her you shouldn't have said anything and kept your thoughts to yourself.
I personally think it's fair.

[dkp123]

Ask your parents if they brought you up to lie? and when they say no, we didn't bring you up to lie.. say exactly..