What should I do???

[racer94]

I have this friend who is quite open about his sexuality, he always wants to show me his junk, etc. He claims to be straight but i think he is gay or at least bi. We have looked at eachothers junk before and he always txts me and asks when we can look again and maybe touch a lil. I am 100% straight so im not fully into all that. I agreed to look once to see a size comparison. The thing is, he has quite the flamboient (fruity) personality at school and everyone thinks hes gay. Since im straight im not completely in to touching and stuff. Basically What im asking is, shoul i continue our friendship or since im a lil uncomfortable, should i call it off? (I have absollutely nothing against gays at all, they are human just like everyone else).

[TapDancer]

Be open. Explain that your not into it and that if he is, thats okay. He'll understand

[racer94]

Be open. Explain that your not into it and that if he is, thats okay. He'll understand
He swears hes straight tho.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Not puberty related.

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[canadaski]

No, no , no. Please don't call off your friendship because you suspect your friend is gay (even if he wants you). If it's true and he really is gay, he'll need more support from you now than ever. It sounds as if you're afraid people at school will think you're gay if you hang out with him. This is the sad world we live in, people segregate society in several different ways. Make yourself better than these idiots and be proud for your friend and his diversity. He'll know he can't have you if you're straight but he will find somebody else to crush on sooner or later. Just stick with him and be his friend, it doesn't matter what other people think.

Of course, he may not really be gay. He could be 100% straight but really want to see your penis repeatedly:D. I know it may seem unlikely but you can never really assume that someone is gay until they tell you directly, no matter how flamboyant they are.

[Abyssal Echo]

I have this friend who is quite open about his sexuality, he always wants to show me his junk, etc. He claims to be straight but i think he is gay or at least bi. We have looked at eachothers junk before and he always txts me and asks when we can look again and maybe touch a lil. I am 100% straight so im not fully into all that. I agreed to look once to see a size comparison. The thing is, he has quite the flamboient (fruity) personality at school and everyone thinks hes gay. Since im straight im not completely in to touching and stuff. Basically What im asking is, shoul i continue our friendship or since im a lil uncomfortable, should i call it off? (I have absollutely nothing against gays at all, they are human just like everyone else).

be honest with him...tell him you were curious and that your not interested in doing more with him.

[racer94]

be honest with him...tell him you were curious and that your not interested in doing more with him.see, the thing is, we live in a town of 5k people and word spreads like a wildfire. Im not homophobic, im just not completely comfortable with it.

[canadaski]

see, the thing is, we live in a town of 5k people and word spreads like a wildfire. Im not homophobic, im just not completely comfortable with it.

You say you're not homophobic? I assume you'll remain his friend then. He has his sexual/emotional wants and you have yours. Don't let it interfere with your friendship.