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Gondolin555
January 25th, 2012, 06:45 PM
Hi there, I'm new to VT, so pardon if I'm doing something newbish and I don't know about it or if this is the wrong forum to post this.

So there's this guy in class that I kinda of like. He's cute, kind of quiet, smart and athletic.

The problem is I only see him during English, Chemistry, and occasionally the hallway. We haven't talked to each other. I also don't know how to flirt with him, or even talk to him. He is always with a friend.

How can I make friends and flirt and get him to see that I like him? He very rarely gets on facebook. Btw, I'm a guy. Gay.

This sounds cliche, so again, I pardon in advance.

Donkey
January 25th, 2012, 06:46 PM
Is he gay? Don't set yourself up for disappointment, most people don't like the same sex

Gondolin555
January 25th, 2012, 06:51 PM
Is he gay? Don't set yourself up for disappointment, most people don't like the same sex

I don't know. That is the other main thing. But I haven't talked to him really.

Donkey
January 26th, 2012, 02:49 AM
Most people aren't gay really. We're talking around 1 in 20 even in the most gay friendly capitals like San Francisco. Some parts of America will be more like 1 in 50 or below. I would be very smooth about it if you wanted anything to happen :P start as friends and make conversation as you would with any other friend

Mortal Coil
January 26th, 2012, 02:55 AM
As the mod said, he probably isn't gay. It doesn't mean you two can't be friends though. Just be yourself, and he'll probably really like you. You seem like a nice guy :) Sorry if this doesn't work out

Abyssal Echo
January 26th, 2012, 04:00 AM
I'd just start be intoduicng yourself and go from there :)