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acryforhelp
January 25th, 2012, 04:52 PM
I hate living with my grandparents. My grandpa is a psychologist and is always commenting on how I do everything wrong. Today I get in trouble because I dont talk enough.....well you know what sometimes I just dont feel like talking. Especially to him.....all he is going to do is mock and critic me. I cut again today, just one cut and now i am resisting the urge to tear up my leg. I want to so badly but I am not suppose to be cutting at all and i have to keep it a secret.......ugghhhhhhhhh.

Alexithymia
January 30th, 2012, 12:51 PM
A lot of my friends have parents who are psychologists, and they always ask the wrong questions and do the wrong things. What I'm about to tell you may seem very selfish, but trust me, it helps. A lot.

Just don't care what they say. Just realize that you are yourself, and they have no power over that. If you don't want to care about what they say, then just don't. In your mind, they can be people who don't understand you, so they should be ignored.

Like I said, it does seem selfish, but it's how you deal with idiots and other selfish people. I'm here if you need me. Feel free to VM me or add me on Skype. ^.^