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Camazot
January 24th, 2012, 11:45 PM
my uncle and step aunt were dating and through her i met this girl shes wonderful (the girl in my sig)
we like eachother and we both aknowledge it but we are stuck...shes my step aunts cousin...also u should know we liked eachother before my stepaunt married my uncle

i really want to shes sad with the guy shes with but stays becuz she doesn't want to be alone i want to take his spot

so shes like my 2nd cousin with no blood connection is it alright to date her??

Vaulter
January 24th, 2012, 11:55 PM
IMO check your local laws, if its legal, go for it =].

All legality aside, I personally don't see any problem with it. I think that because you are TECHNICALLY family (i think, i get confused with that stuff) then you'll have to deal with some light harassment from friends, and more than likely if your family has any sense of humor it will become a sort of joke, but that's such an obscure relative (cousin to an aunt via marriage? I don't think you would even go to the same family reunion) that I don't think there's any issues.

My opinion, go for it bud, and don't take shit from anybody for it.

unnamed94
January 25th, 2012, 01:44 AM
by having her on the signature of YOUR account and because of the things you said, i think you are kinda obssesed with her. theres nothing wrong with dating her, at least from what i know (no blood relative)

Quercus
January 25th, 2012, 01:57 AM
I dont think it would be much of a problem..
But something to think over. Do you really want this girl to be dating you just because she doesn't want to be lonely?

botwa
January 25th, 2012, 07:51 AM
yeah, agree with the person above me

Quercus
January 25th, 2012, 01:14 PM
yeah, agree with the person above me

Cause im a genius right? ;)

Funnyguy1998
January 25th, 2012, 06:25 PM
i dont see the problem with it

Jupiter
January 25th, 2012, 06:32 PM
no offense, but you are 16, it's unlikely that you will marry her, so go ahead and date her.

but who knows, maybe you will marry her.

Camazot
January 25th, 2012, 07:09 PM
well im not obsesssed with her i mean i really really like her but she isnt the person i like the most and i dont wantnto date her because shes lonely i want to date her because shes really nice, has a beautiful voice and always makes me laugh shes in my sig because i was bored

Jupiter
January 25th, 2012, 07:19 PM
then if she isn't the girl yo ulike the most.. .no. it's not okay to date her.

Camazot
January 25th, 2012, 10:43 PM
sighs but there is complications when it comes to the girl i like the most...sighs thanks for the advice everyone