Is she cheating? =(

[xhelgrindx]

I was on her facebook and I read this message =( I don't know what I should do
Her- hey come over here ;)
Him- noooo you come here i have a room all to myself =)
Her- so do iii
Him- but i have a bigger bed ;P
Her- i dont wanna walk all the way across campus by myself at night just to go to my car =/
Her- not that much bigger
Him- awwww come on ill buy beer!
Her- =( so you wont come over?
Her- =( well i guess you wont get all this ;P
Him- whaa cum on
Her- come over then lol
Him- noooo come here please!
Him- you want me =)
Her- i cant =/

[Jupiter]

I would assume so, but maybe think in any other way that this could be interpreted.

[xhelgrindx]

How else could this be interpreted?? Ik she didn't go but she wanted him to come over and she was flirting with him and they both said stuff. It sounds really bad. What should I do?

[Jupiter]

Maybe you should talk to her about this.

[xhelgrindx]

She's just gonna get angry that I read it and was on her facebook so I have to be sure and then shes just gonna get angry if I accuse her. Idk I didn't think she would or has until I read that. But she lives two hours away and I don't see her as much as I would like. But I'm going to see her on thursday.

[Quercus]

Option 1.
Drop her like a hot cake
Jump in the car
Put her in drive
Tear off the rear view mirror
And never look back again.

Option 2.
Plant cocaine in her purse and call the cops on her... Thank me later.


All joking aside, Iv read a message like this from my ex girlfriend.. Not with the sexual thing but they were flirting.. and I about died.
Bring it up to her that you would never cheat on her, and that she is the best girlfriend ever! Make her feel guilty and maybe she'll fess up.
Also remember... Once a cheater always a cheater.

[xhelgrindx]

Ya when i first read it I just about died =P Thanks for the advise man I think I'm just gonna wait it out and see if she says anything else and then bring it up or just drop her.

[botwa]

Idk, I think you should at least talk to her.
If I were you, I would leave her. (don't like the word "dump")

[bdrew22]

Uhhhhhhyeah she's cheating...... Or she's sure thinking about doing it

[Spook]

How else could this be interpreted?? Ik she didn't go but she wanted him to come over and she was flirting with him and they both said stuff. It sounds really bad. What should I do?

Sometimes I joke with my guy friends like this, but you can't be sure. The best and only way you can find out the truth is to talk to her. Don't jump to conclusions just yet, it may not be the same way it seems...though, in truth...it sounds a little bit bad. I agree with the guilt fest. Cheating can often occur in long distance relationships (as you said you both had), so I would look into it.

If she is cheating, she doesn't deserve you.

Good luck :)

[xhelgrindx]

Even if she is joking around that's not right I don't joke around with other girls like that because I know she wouldn't like it. Also she told me today that she has a dream that I cheated on her... that even makes me believe even more that she was thinking about it or has.

[xhelgrindx]

Well I saw her tonight and she told me that she was being that way because he was being an ass and asking for it and so she told him to meet her somewhere and never showed lol =P I was being stupid I know she would never cheat but also when you see something like that you question wth is going on lol but nvm thanks guys =P

[Quercus]

Well I saw her tonight and she told me that she was being that way because he was being an ass and asking for it and so she told him to meet her somewhere and never showed lol =P I was being stupid I know she would never cheat but also when you see something like that you question wth is going on lol but nvm thanks guys =P
If it was me..
Id still be paranoid, and keep checking her inboxs

[xhelgrindx]

I believe her I didn't even ask her about it she just told me do you still think stuff was still happening possibly?