Friends really that open?

[Tanner123]

On this site I always hear about how people have cousins and friends they jack off with or experiment with, but I don't know anyone open to these things, is it just me or do others face the same problem?

[UAjock]

I wouldnt even feel confortble asking any of my cousins

[Stronger]

I dont have anyone either, its not something to get all bent out of shape for, don't worry about it

[ExhibitG]

agreed.

[minimoya]

I try to talk about stuff, but everyone in my school are homophobes, and even if you rig up the word "penis", people think you're gay, so I don't. Every time I'm with my cousin, I can never get him alone, he has a bother and two sisters, two parents. I got mo one.

[Bigjack]

I don't ever get to

[Jupiter]

You have to remember, this is the internet. Not EVERYONE is telling the truth, but not everyone is lying.

[Tonebone88]

I know what you're saying. Everyone tells stories about jerking off with friends, but my friends are so protective of that kind of info... My friends won't tell if they're cut or not, won't tell me their length, or anything else. They think the subject of puberty is uncomfortable so i know they would never jack off with me.

[Kaleb9604]

I feel the exact same way!! I read all of those and I was thinking really??? I'm too shy to ask anyone even my close friend

[you know103]

think about it, maybe is better that way cuz if it happens then it might change your sexuality but is up to yall if yall want to try it or not if yall get an oportunity

[hotdude97]

If u asked someone at my skool everyone one would call u gay forever lol

[Abyssal Echo]

On this site I always hear about how people have cousins and friends they jack off with or experiment with, but I don't know anyone open to these things, is it just me or do others face the same problem?

I never messed around with any of my cousins male or female. I did talk with one of my cousins (girl) I told her I was Gay she didn't seem to care. sometimes we would look at teen magazines and usually end up drooling over the same guys. as for Jo buddies the last one I just got lucky. my friend sent his little brother over to see if I wanted to play football. my step dad let him and sent him to my room. I heard him comming up the steps. I figured he would knock. He didn't. when he walked in on me I had just finished jacking I was naked with a my hard dick in my hand. I guess he liked what he saw. about 2 weeks later we started messin around.

idk what to say other than I got lucky.

[ImCoolBeans]

Well who says they're all being 100% truthful :P

[Irishperson15]

Yes i find that too. Most Americans on this seem comfortable to do this

[matt25]

It doesn't happen..
only time is when you're about 13 and everyone is constantly super excited.

[matt25]

but even then it's not like everyone does it to each other.

[Evancosta]

You have to remember, this is the internet. Not EVERYONE is telling the truth, but not everyone is lying.

Smartest answer on this thread

[Funnyguy1998]

i have the same problem

[Polishbum]

i personally am a very open guy, i don't care, i say whats on my mind, and that has got me experimenting with guys. just be plain and simple, have some fun,

[CarolinaDude]

Don't lose sleep over it. I had a time when I wondered the same thing. I specifically wondered if the guys at my school experimented with their friends.. It seemed doubtful. Maybe most of the VTers are a little more experimental?

[blondieboy]

ya...same here...dont get upset about it...just live with it and someone mite come along soon

[Gordo]

I think in real life it's harder to admit to messing around with another dude, but on VT you aren't concerned with people labeling you gay at your school for the rest of your time there.

Also, for the guys that haven't, it isn't like your sitting around with your friend and someone says, hey let's jo together. That's why you can't see it happening to you or don't believe it because it's not like figuring out what movie to see. Guys don't just blurt it out or ask. If you're straight, It's gotta be with someone you really trust, preferably another straight guy, that way you both know you won't go tellin' people about it. Then that brings up the question of how straight are the two guys doing it. :)

[Auzzie 94]

I've experimented and masturbated numerous times with friends (but never alone with a guy, always a mix of with my girl friends and guy friends all masturbating together), happened with one of my cousins once but we never really thought about doing it, it just happened lol, some people are more open sexually than others I guess.

[Saxophone 44]

I live in one of the gayest cities in the USA (not as a put down, there are statistically a lot more gay people here than most cities. Number one is Salt lake city, Utah for the most openly gay people), Portland, Oregon. Surprisingly, there are a ton of homophobes at my school. I always hear "Shut up, faggot!" being said to the one openly gay kid at our school. So of course, I'm scared shitless to ask for experimentation, even if it's straight.

[BaNd]

On this site I always hear about how people have cousins and friends they jack off with or experiment with, but I don't know anyone open to these things, is it just me or do others face the same problem?

ik exactly what you mean

[xSebastian]

I go to an all guy school.
There are no restrictions.
I've done something with a friend.
Most guys are pretty open about anything and everything at my school.
I don't know. I think it depends on environment.

[disguy15324]

Amen! I have no one that is open like that. I wish... you can't even so much as talk about jacking off and stuff. Let alone do it.

[Jupiter]

i also want to point out that it isn't as great as everyone pegs it to be. there are so many things to do with friends, so make sure you don't mess up too much.

[Jake777dylan]

I only have 1 friend who is open to have fun that's it lol

[Drummerboi9876]

Most people dont have anybody and most people lie so thats the internet.

[MykeSoBe]

I tend to go slowly with this stuff. There's one friend of mine with whom I'm comfortable doing everything from talking about our anatomy to experimenting, but then again, it was he who out of the blue asked me if I jacked off, and another one with whom I've brought up sexual topics rather subtly and slowly: Just last night, I brought it up to him how I've gone on this crazy 40-day no-masturbation challenge, and he said I'm crazy for that, since his record was only 10 days! :D