Friend Jerk Off

[SportsNutChase]

OK dudes, I spent the past month in Europe with a couple of friends. Close friends from high school and football camp. We can drink in Europe and we did and well naked-ness happened. and well Jo happened. It was cooll and had fun but now we are home and its kinda odd?? Should I talk about it or let it go ? Just some touching and maybe a little oral but thats it. // Great trip BTW

[Magenta]

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[Stronger]

Maybe you should just let it go, ya know..What happens in Europe, stays in Europe

[Bretts]

See if they bring it up first, and if they do, then talk about it!

[Tonebone88]

Well, if you want to continue doing what you guys did in Europe, then you should bring it up. You've already seen each other naked so it shouldn't be a big deal to do it again. if you have no desire to continue, then don't mention it.

[bigjohnson]

if you want to keep doing it bring it up and see what they say

[SportsNutChase]

well the first night home my dudes stayed at my house before the parents came in to break us up, we had a little bit of somthin?? that morning. IDK dudes totally confused? We have been back for weeks but havent talked about it... Total rich kid thing to do.?

[Stronger]

well the first night home my dudes stayed at my house before the parents came in to break us up, we had a little bit of somthin?? that morning. IDK dudes totally confused? We have been back for weeks but havent talked about it... Total rich kid thing to do.?

Total rich kid what? Hey if you want the "fun" to continue then talk to them, no hurt in talking

[disguy15324]

I wouldn't bring it up, unless you think your buddies wouldn't care. If you want to continue you can always ask, but that could lead to different things... some of them potentially bad. Idk man, the choice is yours.

[UAjock]

Even if some brings it up I wouldnt dwell on it to much

[Gordo]

Is there awkwardness between you? If so, you can bring it up to discuss the awkwardness and that all on it's own will be awkward, but might resolve so issues. Is there jealousy or some of you are closer friends now than before and some of you concerned your not as close. Like a shifting group dynamic kind of thing.

Awkwardness, i could handle and would probably just say nothing. If I thought it was gonna hit the rumor mill at school and people talking about what happened or who is big or small or in love with so-and-so. That would be horrible for some of you.

[IAMWILL]

I would hint at it like talk about that night but not the sexual part just say like "dude i was so drunk that night haha, and then there was what we did back at hotel" in like a humorous way. If your friends want to talk about it they will pursure that and say something about it too. If they dont, they probably dont want to talk about it. In that case, just dont bring it up and keep it your guys secret.

[Jag14]

dont bring it up unless one of your friends bring it up first.

[willy93]

i would bring it up and see how everyone else is feeling, and at the very least if they don't want to continue doing it make a pact or something to not say anything to anyone

[Evancosta]

Just let it go. Whatever happens happens.

[Funnyguy1998]

if u liked it hint around about it and see what they say/ do

[samb12]

it might be best not to talk about and just ask to hang out or sumthing and dont bring up like that part of the trip

[TheMessenger]

throw another party and see what happens

[confused65]

let it go unless they wanna talk about it

[NephilimAzrael]

Try to
A) Subtly and slowly bring it up/ hint at that/those night(s)
B) Just get it out in the open and off ur chest
C) Try to just leave them a note/ give them a letter saying u wanna kinda discuss it, and say if they wanna leave it alone, to just ignore the not, but like hand it to them to ensure they get it, or text them or something? Not exactly what some would call manly, but a great away of at least making it LESS awkward?

[chris96]

i would hint at it a little bit

[Hunterrrr]

It's up to you buddy!

[leafgreenangel]

if you want to do it again then talk to them about it

[Gravity_boy]

Ask them if they want to do it again.

[aambler16]

Maybe try to bring it up

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Its hard to forget things like that. I would just bring it up and say look, whatever happened is in the past and lets stay friends and move on. Good luck!

[Ricardo]

Maybe they dont want to do it anymore but sounds like a awesome holiday :)

[wolfguy]

Please do not post threads in the girls' puberty section.margreat
ok this is the guys pub thing

[SmileyFace13]

just pretend like nothing happened until they bring it up...then when that happens just break it down any way you would want to.they would possibly understand...plpus there's no right or wrong way to start your conversation.:yes:

[Jmann]

Id let it slide unless you reaaaaly wanna talk about it. If you do then bring it up if you guys drink again so it's less risky or awk in the moment

[Sean4U]

I think if you all enjoyed it someone will bring it up again, and I would just let what happens, happen. Not really proactive advise, but the best I can give since you seem to think it was ONLY because of being in Europe, drinking and all. If it happened more than once or more than a few times, I would say you all enjoyed it and it will happen again.



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Sean | Male | 15

Always open to talking to other guys my age or just plain old questions back and forth. If I'm on send me a message and lets see if we can talk.

[Terrell613091]

let it gooo u were just having fun-

[Incompris]

Dont bring it up unless they do, then deal with it

[AZEEM]

what happens in europe stays in europe

[Dill1993]

The same thing happened to me! I would just bring it up to them again the next time u all hang out. :)

[kanjiruminamoto]

Haha! I've seen a lot of opinions, well all has a point there.
It seems kinda awkward and I have the same situation years back,
Content Removed; don't discuss ways for people to ask how to experiment with others. ~StoppingTime

[JamExX]

I think you should see if one of them brings it up first. If one of them does, and they enjoyed it. Then I say let the fun continue. (;

[Michael Anthony]

bring it up. you might be missing out on a lot of fun if you dont

[superstarB]

Just let it go.....probably best option if it wasnt
planned

[sdude]

I bet u aren't the only one of them thinking of it...next time u are hanging out and the usual stuff comes up like "what should we do"?? U can always say, well, we can always do what we did in Europe?? Everyone will laugh, then I bet one of them says, sure, why not? ....good luck man...

[zerosix22]

just let it go man. not a so nice topic. just wait for them to open up when they are comfortable talking about it.

[ThatGuy69]

You should just forget about it, you were drunk and so were they, there is no problem just continue as if it never happened