View Full Version : would u dump somebody if they hung out with your friends
foreverandalways
January 24th, 2012, 07:44 PM
ok so like my boyfriend says im in the dog house with him because i hang out with his friends is that bad
Stronger
January 24th, 2012, 08:33 PM
I think he's jealous then, he shouldn't be saying that if he loved you, he cleary wants to be your only guy friend
Electra Heart
January 24th, 2012, 08:45 PM
What? I honestly don't understand... I don't see why hanging out with your boyfriend's friends would make him say something like that... My guess is he's intimidated by your relationship with them but that it NO reason for you to back off his friends. It sounds like he has still got some growing up to do.
Moxie
January 25th, 2012, 01:44 AM
No offense, but your boyfriend sounds immensely immature.
He sounds like he's jealous because you're interacting with other males, and he's afraid that you might like one of his friends more than you like him. You should let him know that you are allowed to make friends with whomever you so desire, and reassure him that you love him and will stay faithful to him throughout your entire relationship.
beccaweiser
January 25th, 2012, 05:28 AM
I wonder, is he concerned simply because you hang out with them, or might you/them be a little too flirty for his liking? (Just asking) I say this because it could be more of an issue for him than just that you're hanging out...
ImCoolBeans
January 25th, 2012, 10:29 AM
Moved to Relationships and Dating.
It sounds like he's just a bit jealous, try talking it over with him.
Spook
January 25th, 2012, 10:33 AM
It sounds like he is a little possessive, as in he wants you to only be around him. There is also the possibility that he is worried his friends would try to flirt/steal you. I also think he is being immature about this, though. Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't listen or give you a reasonable explanation about why he doesn't want you to hang out with his friends, then I would suggest to dump him.
DaylightDusk
January 25th, 2012, 11:26 AM
Well i mean if you are with him thats understandable. But if you don't tell him and just go hang with his friends without him thats a little fucked up just saying
killert252
January 25th, 2012, 09:45 PM
He is defiantly jealous.. Just talk to him and tell him the truth. never lie (:
just say you are just friends with them. nothing more. if you start to feel something for one of his friends, tell him. be honest.
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