This Girl

[TheCbailey07]

Ok, i like this girl im in school with. We have 5 classes together and talk a lot like friends. She plays this thing like she doesn't like me, but i can tell its a joke because she's not a mean person.
Sometimes during class, i find her staring at me. When i see her doing this, she casually looks away. I she might have a boyfriend but im not sure. I want to ask her out before the end of year dance. (Not for the dance but as a bf, gf thing, just going to the dance as part of it)

Im not the most attractive, i wear glasses, but i look better in contacts, i don't wear high waters our any unfitting cloths. Some might consider me a nerd because im really smart, but im not huge glasses, pocket protecters, and really bad achny. I have a clear face and Aro, clothing.

Tell me if you think she likes me and how to ask her out. (Before the end of the year)

I dont want an answer like "just ask her out". I wana find a way to change how she feels about me.
Oh, and P.S. She knows i like her, but the question still is, does she like me?


12/13/11
Ok, i still don't know if she has a boy friend, but i know this other boy likes her and just got her #, but has not asked her out.
I also made a fool of myself in front of her because... lets just say i am bad at "2 for flinching" because i ended up with 12 punches, and let me say this kid punches hard! I ended up running around the room, running from the punches. And i couldn't block them because then, that would be considered "flinching".

She ended up laughing. But she puts up the "i hate you" game and allways laughs at me when i will trip or hit my funny bone, or something like that.

01/05/12

So, i set her up with a friend of mine. Got a girlfriend (not her ), she thought i was joking, broke up with me, after i bought her a neckalace.
Now were woking on a project together( not the ex, her). I have her number and we txt and call each other all the time.

She keeps making fun of me in a playfull way, not 2 hurt, just because she can.
Also, there's this other girl that im starting to have feelings for. But i dont want to move on with her yet. Its a long story, but... yea. Soo help and advice wud be great.

01/22/12

So now im like bff's with her. She gives me hugs once and a while, she still has a bf (that i set up) But shes giving me a make over, this basiclly means, more muscular, and leather jacket. Im also helping her pick out her dress 4 the dance. She asked me if i wud help her personally, is this a sign. o yea. 2day she told me she used 2 like me and she doesnt think she likes me anymore. ik this information is all over the place but i still need some help

01/24/12

So progress 2day u could say. Well, first i was given the task by her to find something out about her bf. Well its not the asnwer she wanted 2 hear, she almost broke up with him, but she asked me 2 try and keep it together. i managed to keep it together 4 them (yea ik, stupid me) but now she was like i owe you, so l8r that day i said, if something were to happen 2 u and ur bf and i had no one 2 go with, cud w go 2gether as friends? The answer was YES! so now were like fricken brother and sister we talk so much. DayligthDusk, thanks 4 the feedback, but im gonna see how this dance thing goes and mabey, just mabey if i et delt the right cards... well you all know

[DaylightDusk]

Im going to be %100 honest with you.... Leave her alone and forget about her. I know it sounds terrible but trust me. I tried to get with this girl for ermmm about 10 months, we we're bestfreinds and we would cuddle and all that, but not date. I asked her out and she denyed me, so i went on to the next. I started dating this girl im in love with and all she has done is fuck with me and try to sabotage it.... we hate each other now

[TheCbailey07]

ok, thanks for that. it might come to that unfortunatlly, but the good news is that if we both dont have dates 4 the dance were going 2gether as friends :-)

[Vaulter]

LOL you sound like me in high school, buying stuff for girls I wasn't in a relationship with, always trying to be there for her, etc. Tell her you like her, and want to be with her. Maybe say something about how you understand that she has a boyfriend and would never ask her to leave him for you. (If she breaks up with a guy for you, it sets the precedent that she could break up with you for another guy). Anything past that depends on how she responds.

A few of my thoughts on all of this, she'll probably say, lets stay friends or something or "I don't want to ruin our friendship by trying to start a relationship" or any of that other high school BS. To me it sounds like you really like her, and it probably really sucks for you being in that position of being close to her but not being with her. Don't deal with that man, it's never worth it. It puts you in a painful place and her in an either awkward or ignorant position which isn't fun for either of you (if it comes to it, say this to her, she'll either understand or she won't) and that you can stay friends but that just means grabbing lunch together occasionally, because seeing each other too often might bring up old feelings that you don't want around.

It seems like I always try to give advice to situations I think were like mine, and my advice would be what I would tell 14 year old me, but if your nothing like me than none of what I've said applys. Hopefully it does and you can either walk away with a relationship or with friend you see twice a year, instead of a psychogirl that resents you for telling her the truth and spreads vicious lies around campus about you. All three have happened to me, good times (ish).

[Camazot]

interesting...i went through this not that long ago well actually like a year ago and twice too lol...first it was with hannah g we will call her hannah then with hannah v we will call her villasenor...so 8th grde i like them both watever went out with villasenor broke up stupid reason, also crushing hard on hanah she had boyfrien...9th grde hannah admits she liked me but not so much any more(we became close, bffs u could say) thats where i messed up i should have kissed her then she was single...me=dumb, anyways...villasenor got a bf (i hated him with a passion) we hung out a lot we cuddled i kissed her cheeks...on one of these occasions i thought she had broken up wwith her bf and almost kissed her she stopped me...she then got really upset thats when i found out her bf was hanging alot with another girl..i got so pissed but i didnt show it because i loved her always had...i tried to convince her to break up with him...she wouldnt...another occasion she said they broke up that he was a douche to her and i said i told u...later that day i learned she lost her virginity to him i was so mad...i loved her and i didnt think she would do that.....ever since then we barely speak she never gives me hugs anymore...hannah and i are still good friends but villasenor ive been ignoring i still love her but shes gone she...nvm, anyways...moral of the story if u really like this girl act and act soon the worst thing she could say is no but if u dont...you could lose her forever...so i would use that dance to ur advantage...but i guess u already new that haha...also i think its funny because i think im classified as a nerd too because im really smart but i dont look like one haha

[TheCbailey07]

I guess were just gonna have 2 see what happens when the dance comes around. And one part i didnt mention up there. i used to be friends with her bf, thats how i set them up and helped them trough there relationship issues, and u know what that kid does, he completly stops talking 2 me and tells his gf, (the girl this whole forms about) to stop talking to me all together and about the relationship. WTF? Its like, i set u up, and if i haddnt convinced her 2 not break up with u right then, u wudnt have this relationship.