Do I like boys, girls, or both? If I like both which one do you think I like more?

[PrincessTeen]

Well, the thing is I am VERY confused. every time I see a cute guy walking past by I can't help but notice. Especially in school I have lots of crushes on lots of guys. HOWEVER, when it comes to girls I rarely notice them. However, when I do like a girl... I like them a LOT. So far for some weird reason I am only able to like one girl at a time, however I like them a lot. I'm not sure I like the girl a lot because I am willing to talk to them? Because even though I see cute guys, I tend to ignore because I'm nervous around them. I also want to be a girl so am I being confused between admiration and love with the girls?

Too much reading? To make it more easier to read it's like this:

1. I tend to notice guys much more then girls (also meaning I have lots of crushes on guys). However I'm always nervous to talk to them. Do you think if I actually talked to them I'd like them much much more?

2. I rarely notice girls. However, when I do like a girl I like her a LOT LOT. And I'm willing to talk to her. By the way I WANT to be a girl. So am I just admiring girls?

3. I can imagine myself with a boyfriend however it's kinda hard imagining me with a girlfriend. I don't even know how I would want her to treat me. I don't even know how I want to treat a girl if i had a girlfriend... >.>""...

Do I like boys or girls or both? If I like both which one do you think I like more? Which one do you think I would be happiest with? Thanks! ;D
And I'm 19. Sooooo like ya. If age has to do with anything

[Jupiter]

I really didn't mean to click that. I meant to say you mostly like guys, and that liking girls is just a phase. But only you can make the final decision.

[Magenta]

There's a chance you could like both or you could just be going through a phase of curiosity. We can't really tell you because no matter how much you tell us, we can't get into your head and tell you how you feel. :P

I will date either gender and I do find I'm similar but in the opposite way. I notice a lot of girls but when I like a guy, I fall for them hard. It's not that I like one more than the other, I just fall for them differently which may be similar with you. You may find guys more attractive at first glance but you like girls after knowing them more. Maybe you're admiring girls... but do you think you only like them for their looks or for personality too?

We can't tell you which you'd be happier with because every girl and guy is different so at that point, it's not really a question of gender but the person themselves. Just go with what your heart tells you at the time and take chances. If it doesn't work out, that's okay. You'll find out with time, I believe.

[munzy5581]

you might just be going through a phase...

[PrincessTeen]

Oh btw I'm 19. If that helps you if you think it's a phase?

[PrincessTeen]

Anymore ideas about what I am? ._. thanks

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

There is a chance you may be interested in women as more than just things to admire. You may find out that you have the capacity to build relationships with women, but it seems you like men more. You could be bisexual with a preference for the opposite sex or you could just find girls attractive without it being anything more than that.

I'd say you are in a state of being curious. No one can tell you who and what you like though.

[Stacey.]

If you're attracted to both genders, then you're bisexual. You probably like them equally but idk, that's for you to decide.