Is my best friend trying 2 make me do something sexual

[AWSUMguy]

My best friend invited me to his holiday house and while we were up there he did stuff like: flas me, wrestled with me, challenged me to truth or dare, and when I was just about to go to sleep, mind you, we were only in our underwear, he started tickling me (he knows my weak spots). Is he trying to start something sexual between us???

[ChrisThing]

It depends on How old you are
If your around 13, It's alright 14 Max

[Schnope]

There is a huge distinction between whether your friend wanted start something sexual, or whether he just wanted to fool around as most friends do. It could go either way, maybe he was only trying to fool around, or maybe he did want to do something. Maybe you should ask him? Only he would know what he wanted out of what you guys did together

[AWSUMguy]

Oh yeah, and were 13

[ChrisThing]

Oh yeah, and were 13

Then it was probably just for a bit of fun,
Although there is a Chance he might be Gay or Bi,
I wouldn't say he is, Probably just something to do instead of sleeping.

[Jag14]

that is typical during pubety to do this but If really want to know just ask him.

[Irishperson15]

I do this with my friend lol and he just laughs were both straight

[Xandle]

Asking him could be awkward... I reckon you should decide if you want to or not. If you want to, then just go with the flow and let him go the direction he wants to take it an do it. If not, just refuse and he'll eventually get the message.

[cpr97]

sounds to me like your friend might be curious about being with a boy n he is trying to feel you out to see if your curious as well and to see what your reaction is seems like he is trying to ease his way into experimenting with you but is to nervous of a negative reaction from you if he just comes right out and says "hey wanna try this or that" believe it or not the few boys i have experimented with pretty much all started the way you have described. pretty much he probably looks at it this way if you are going to making fun of him for wanting to try sexual stuff with another boy he probably feels you will stop any kind of advances he makes or refuse certain truth or dare situations or the game all together.
im not saying he is or isnt but it seems your friend is quite curious and im not saying you should or shouldnt go any further with him or experiment with him that is totally between you 2 and you should both be comfortable with eachothers wishes and respect eachother if something does happen and 1 or both of you dont like what is going on...

[Stronger]

Have you two ever do this before, if not then maybe he's a bit curious, if you feel like your unconfortable then tell him you don't like doing it

[bdrew22]

sounds to me like your friend might be curious about being with a boy n he is trying to feel you out to see if your curious as well and to see what your reaction is seems like he is trying to ease his way into experimenting with you but is to nervous of a negative reaction from you if he just comes right out and says "hey wanna try this or that" believe it or not the few boys i have experimented with pretty much all started the way you have described. Pretty much he probably looks at it this way if you are going to making fun of him for wanting to try sexual stuff with another boy he probably feels you will stop any kind of advances he makes or refuse certain truth or dare situations or the game all together.
Im not saying he is or isnt but it seems your friend is quite curious and im not saying you should or shouldnt go any further with him or experiment with him that is totally between you 2 and you should both be comfortable with eachothers wishes and respect eachother if something does happen and 1 or both of you dont like what is going on...

agreed!!!!!!!!

[Funnyguy1998]

my guess is ya but

[Evancosta]

Probably so.

[Polishbum]

just guys hanging out, i have a friend and we do stupid shit like that, but i love this guy like a bro, and yeahh

[samb12]

he might if u dont like just tell him it makes u feel uncomfteable or just ask him straight out

[Kenton225]

Dunno if its gay or anything but when i was that age i used to do stuff like that, jsut so then i could see what my friends penis's look like and there whole body tbh just to compare ot see if i was 'normal' he is probabley jsut curious but if he starts like reaching for you and you dont want him to, just tell him to back off

[xXsnowboarderXx]

Well i would think that its a joke cause durring school my friends taze me as a joke soooo...

[BORIK]

You are over reacting a tad bit my friend. Look my friend does that all the time but hes just a fool just like your friend so don't freak out about just go with the flow. Trust me it works.

[coreyorama]

their is that moment in time where you kinda go nuts... anythign with skin you have a want/ need to do stuff like this

[crustbag]

accidently flash ur penis to him and see what he says

[disguy15324]

Honestly man it could go either way.. it sounds TO ME like he may be trying to start something or hoping you will start something/bring up the topic of sex and jo and stuff. Or, on the other hand it could just be two friends screwing around. Its a toss up.. you could do some stuff to sort of get a feel for which way he is leaning, just bring up sex or jo in conversation if you feel comfortable doing that and see where it goes.

[danny7]

i've done it with my friend sometimes, and i am gay, but it could be he wants to and he is just curious or he wants just be silly.

[Abyssal Echo]

My best friend invited me to his holiday house and while we were up there he did stuff like: flas me, wrestled with me, challenged me to truth or dare, and when I was just about to go to sleep, mind you, we were only in our underwear, he started tickling me (he knows my weak spots). Is he trying to start something sexual between us???

maybe maybe not if your that concerned ask him.

[mfupi2]

You should ask him about it. Be direct, but don't make him feel defensive. Smile while asking him about it. If he's really that good a friend, he'll talk to you about it.

[Tonebone88]

It is definitely possible that he may wantto do something sexual with you. We all have sexual urges as teens and guys are more easy to access to help fulfill those desires. I think you should ask him what his motive is. If he says he wants to do something sexual with you, then you can either do stuff with him or say no thank you. Or he could say he wasn't coming on to you and there would be no harm done.

[hollisterboi95]

Just ask him, you didn't really give much detail and at your age I used to do have the same experiences with my friends and we were just messing around. Nothing sexual had to do with it. Just ask to make sure and tell him how u feel.

[The_Joker]

sounds to me like your friend might be curious about being with a boy n he is trying to feel you out to see if your curious as well and to see what your reaction is seems like he is trying to ease his way into experimenting with you but is to nervous of a negative reaction from you if he just comes right out and says "hey wanna try this or that" believe it or not the few boys i have experimented with pretty much all started the way you have described. Pretty much he probably looks at it this way if you are going to making fun of him for wanting to try sexual stuff with another boy he probably feels you will stop any kind of advances he makes or refuse certain truth or dare situations or the game all together.
Im not saying he is or isnt but it seems your friend is quite curious and im not saying you should or shouldnt go any further with him or experiment with him that is totally between you 2 and you should both be comfortable with eachothers wishes and respect eachother if something does happen and 1 or both of you dont like what is going on...

agreed

[MarkieMark]

Its probably just him trying too be fun :) Nothing to worry about :)

[rokinho]

Talk to him about it, you can never be too sure, maybe he's just having fun

[ianian]

ask him

[Boroboii]

Maybe he was horny being away with you and wanted to try stuff as most teens do