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LiveFree
January 22nd, 2012, 12:28 AM
I like a kid at my school but I just don't want to put it out there. No one know I'm bi but how can I tell he is gay or bi?

Evancosta
January 22nd, 2012, 12:34 AM
Pay attention to what sex he is more in to. See what he looks at more, boobs/boody or bulges/guy butts. If you find he is not gay an he is 100% straight then don't waste your time, he isn't interested

Abyssal Echo
January 22nd, 2012, 01:57 AM
I reall don't know what to tell you I am totally Gay but to look at me in public you would never know. at school I have both male and female friends. being gay and being a bottom I tend to be more comfortable being with and talking to the girls. which sends the wrong signal to another guy. The best advice I can give is this a guy gives off a vibe some call it gaydar that he is approchable or not. if you feel that he is go for it.

Electra Heart
January 22nd, 2012, 02:12 AM
It's not always obvious, get to know the kid.

audiophile5
January 22nd, 2012, 03:19 AM
When ur alone with him, try to do something, like sit next to him really close so ur entire bodies are in contact, touch "accidentally". It might not work, cause I was sitting next to a guy in a class, we were in the last line of seats, and for half an hour I rubbed his foot from knee to top, he was ok with it but he turned out to be str8. :(


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blairmorhwinkel
January 22nd, 2012, 07:46 AM
I'm gay and i don't know how but If u put me with some one for 5mins I would be able to tell if they are gay or not

Rayquaza
January 22nd, 2012, 07:53 AM
You need to know him, and see his general responses to homosexuality and bisexuality.

Schnope
January 22nd, 2012, 09:19 AM
You can't tell unless you ask him, sometimes the most straight-acting people are in fact gay, and vice versa. We just have the stereotypes of gay and straight people, and not everyone follows those stereotypes. So the only way to know is to ask him.

Jag14
January 22nd, 2012, 09:22 AM
you have to ask to be 100% sure

LiveFree
January 22nd, 2012, 12:19 PM
I appreciate the advice, thanks.

Ender
January 22nd, 2012, 12:20 PM
It's not always obvious, get to know the kid.

^This. Legitimately get to know them.

TheBlackRose321
January 23rd, 2012, 09:39 PM
I major problem I deal with. Just be friend him and one day talk about gay or being into another guy n see what he says