going to far....

[munzy5581]

so my gf and i have been going out for a while and we have gotten more and more "touchy" with each outher leading up to her rubbing me off. we have both decided to tone it down alot. i recently went out with her and we weretouching eachother alot more than we said we would. has this ever happened to anyone? and we are both to fault its not all my fault that we are going this far.advice please

[ima_dude]

it's no one's fault, but when you realize that you're going farthert han you both had agreed, try pointing this out to her and then together decide whether to tone if down or continue.

[Chrisman]

it hasnt happened to me, but my advice is just to go at the pace you are comfortable with and don't push too fast.

[shadowhunter320]

If you are comfortable with this, ask her if she is. Dont go to slow when you're ready, but try not to take them to fast either. Sex is a great and beautiful thing, but remember that, you're young and think with your penis, not your head. If you feel that you're not ready, stop yourself, it won't do any good to continue in something you dont want. Either way, all I can say is, be careful! Hope this helps, and please add rep if it is! :-)
Also, this has happened to me. I find myself seeking into sexual habbets and dont want to, from my experiences. It has ruined my relationships, so if you're not ready dont let it go to far!

[Human]

usually it's the girls with this problem, and guys are happy too go as far as possible :P

and yeah just take it at a speed you're both comfortable with