Afraid

[Princess Ariel]

I'm scared to tell my Mom my sexuality she judges people at the drop of the hat. I feel that if I were tell her, she'd try her dammed hardest to disown me. All I have is her and my grandparents in my life, and they are all homophobes.
It's the same with telling my Best Friend.
If I were to tell her, her first reaction would be that I like her. But no, I just felt that she should no. Being my best friend and all.
I don't wanna lose contact with them, but they should know.

Any advice?

[Electra Heart]

Don't tell her now if you don't think you should but I think you should let her know at some point for some closure. If you hold it in 'till it's too late and she's gone it's gonna eat you up.

[Ambrosia]

You are still very young, and you really don't have to tell her now. Or ever. Of course, if you must tell her, I do advise you wait a while. Maybe until you are out of the house and have a stable life, and are stable with these ideas and who you are. If you are able to support this, and tell her, "Yes, mother. I am --this adult age--, and have been this way for --this amount of years-- and this is my girlfriend of --this amount of years--" She really can't go wrong.

It's best.