Brother's girlfriend

[peteholloway]

This morning I was in the shower and my bro's girlfriend who is a year older than me came in. My shower is sort of round a corner in the bathroom and we don't have a lock at the moment. To cut a long story short, I had a boner, although I wasn't masturbating, and she ended up giving me a blowjob.
My question is, do you think there's any way my bro could find out? I'm obviously not going to tell him, but do you think his girlfriend might? And if so, should I tell him before he finds out from her?
Also, I've sort of had the urge to do something with her again. Will that go away with time do you think?

[Ambrosia]

In all honesty, this is wrong. I understand you are young, and male, and have sexual urges, but you should never act on them with another mans girlfriend. Especially not your own brothers girlfriend. This is immoral, and can deeply hurt your relationship with him.

You should tell him what happened, because chances are if she was so quick to cheat with you she probably has cheated numerous other times with other men besides you (Yeah, that's something to think about, you have no idea where that mouth has been!).

You probably won't tell him though. So, tell him she cheated on him. Don't tell him who with, he might find that out for himself or maybe not, but let him know she is unfaithful.

And as for you wanting to do it again? Don't. Go find your own girl to mess around with, and learn to say no to already taken females. It's not a good habit to get into and it will get you hurt at some point (Physically, when their boyfriends/husbands come to kick your butt for doing so). It may even get your hurt health wise, when you accidentally fool around with a girl who has some sort of a sickness, and gives it right back to you.

Karma will also get involved there. A guy who helps girls cheats, is going to get cheated on.

[Irishperson15]

Erm i dont think it would be a good idea to tell

[Electra Heart]

Ok, well, it's your decision to tell. Just take into consideration that your brother may have real feelings for this girl and she's willing to blow his brother out of the blue, who else is she blowing? You could avoid him getting hurt. That being said, I wouldn't recommend doing it again.

[shadowhunter320]

This is wrong, we all have sexual feelings but acting on them is not good at all times, especially if she's your bros gf. I dont think telling is a good idea for you, but telling your bro that his gf is cheating on him is a good idea. That's really not cool on her part -.- I'm stuck here, Idk what to say. Do you feel is best. In my opinion, honesty is the best answer to anything though. You did something wrong, and taking the punishment is a responsible and honest thing to do.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

Its Wrong but my brother always tells me just because theres a goalie doesn't mean you cant score and you happened to score on his girlfriend haha

[Watta Tem]

i do believe that dr are things better left untold. i am sure that the girl wont tell it. But it depends on what kind of girl she was. It not better for you to tell your brother... just keep it to yourself.

[Human]

tell your brother she is a cheat

[ima_dude]

in all honesty, the best thing to do is to tell. a friend of mine had a similar thing happen, althoit was one of his oter friends (not his brother) and he and the girl actually ended up doing more than just her giving him a bj.

his friend was mad, and broke up with the gf, but in the end the two guys were still friends.

[Chrisman]

I would not tell. It could ruin your relationship. It's a fragile situation and the best thing to do would be to hope for the best and pray your brother's girlfriend doesn't bring it up.

[brittanykiss]

yeah you def shouldnt be doing that. i wouldnt tell him but def dont do it again

[Impact13]

I would definitively find the right time to tell him because when their relationship ends and most of them do, she might try and get back at him by saying "haha thats why I blew you brother" or something, and if he finds out you relationship will from that point be pretty much severed.