Should we be worried?

[Renji]

Hey. So, my identical brother and I are both 17, and we're really close. Lke, ever since we were kids, we've slept side by side in the same bed, played together at school, and though we both have a lot of friends at school, we're both each other's best friends. When we hit puberty, and we're not really sure how it happened, but we started mastrubating together. And about a year ago, we found out that we're both gay (we're absolutely sure now, because neither of us is attracted to girls at all) and we sometimes give each other oral. Anyways, we've talked about it some... Should we be worried? I mean, we still want boyfriends, and we've both had a couple too, but should we be worried?

PS. This account is for both of us. I agree with what my brother said, especially in the top part. We know some families where the kids do nothing but fight all the time, and despite the differences we sometimes have, we're really glad that our relationship is so close. And I've had more boyfriends than he's had. =P

[Whisper]

honestly i think oral counts as incest
but really its just a matter of personal opinions
I don't have a twin I'm the youngest of three
Katies 3yrs older than me
we've always had more of a love hate relationship shed love to beat on me and i'd hate her

I've never thought of either of my sisters like that
they've both seen me in the buff but thats as far as its ever gone and will ever go

[Glenn]

hmm tricky situation ... but i wouldnt look to my self for advice
o and should this be in the relationship part of the forum ?

[Melchi0r]

I think this thread is ok in this forum, Glenn.

How nice it is that you and your twin brother are so close. However, I think the oral is wrong. I don't know what you mean by "being worried", but I think you shouldn't give each other oral any more.

The mutual masturbation is... not the most brotherly thing but it's not really incest either. Although I once knew a kid who helped his brother masturbate when his arm was broken =o

[MoveAlong]

Oh yeah, that's fine. I mean, as long as you do pursue a different life from this, I guess it's ok for the time being. You're probably not going to spend the rest of your lifes with each other :P

Mutual masturbation between brothers and friends is common even when both or one is straight. Oral sex is common, too. So I say keep looking for boyfriends!

[Glenn]

ok living reciever i think tis ok bein here to but really ... that is a bit overboard asking someone else to masterbate someone because his arm was broken ...

[Renji]

Yeah, I guess what we meant by worried is more like 'should we stop?' Also, other things we've noticed are, for instance, the occasions that we don't sleep together in the same bed (like when we went to camp when we were younger), neither of us could get to sleep that easily, more so than when we're just away from home somewhere else such as a friend's house. Like a habit or something that we've gotten used to all of our lives, if that makes sense. >_>

Yeah, and another one I noticed is that we concentrate better on things like school projects when we work together to, instead of a different partner.

[MoveAlong]

You and your brother are close. That's good. I don't think you should stop, but I don't think you should let it take over getting different bfs and living your lives seperate from eachothers way down the road (30s for example)

So basically don't get married to each other :P

[redcar]

Ok I just want to go on record for saying I don't believe a word of this.
Now feel free to shout at me and what not, I am not saying this as an admin but as a member and owner of this diary.

[Renji]

Yeah, we didn't have that in mind, MoveAlong. n_n;; Thanks for your input. We appreciate it. And thanks to everyone else too.

Redcar, with all due respect, we aren't lying, but if you choose not to believe us, then that's not any of our business, and frankly we don't care because we don't have to prove ourselves in that respect. Thank you for being honest, though.

[Melchi0r]

You and your brother are close. That's good. I don't think you should stop, but I don't think you should let it take over getting different bfs and living your lives seperate from eachothers way down the road (30s for example)

So basically don't get married to each other :P

I do think that the oral sex is wrong but the masturbation isn't. However it's fantastic how close Renji and his twin brother are.

[Kamloops.man]

Whatever makes YOU feel comfortable...

[Antares]

well its only natrual that two gay people who live and the same house would start things like this. I dont find it surprising and i dont particularly have an issue with it. i think that if it were sexual intercourse then it would be wrong but right now i view it as a form of masterbation

[MoveAlong]

well its only natrual that two gay people who live and the same house would start things like this.

I don't think it's THAT common : / Not all brothers do this, tho some do
edit: and it's not 'only natural'. If you put a guy and a gal in a house that doesn't mean they'd like each other and have sex
Gay people are just straight people that don't like the opposite sex :P

[LateForTheSky]

As long as your safe and comfortable with it and don't get caught!
Not very common but why follow the sheep eh?