i just wanna cuddle :/

[bmxkid313]

Im not like a lot of guys, and some girls who want somebody they can go sleep with when they are horny. I don't want to have a girlfriend just to be fuck buddies, im not about that. More then anything I just want a girl I can cuddle with and put my arms around and call mine. I am "snuggle starved" as weird as it sounds for any 15 year old dude, I cuddle with my pillow all the time and then I fall asleep like that and when I wake up I feel good then I see that its actully my pillow next to me. This isn't really a question I just needed to put it out in the open. Does anybody else feel this way? Whether your a guy or girl.

[Clawhammer]

I add my name to this number. I'm still a virgin, and I'm perfectly comfortable to keep it that way until I know that it's the right time one day. I'm much more desirous of emotional closeness. I like this girl, but I don't want to have sex with her. But when I can just enjoy being around her and "cuddle," as you say, 'cause I don't get to see her very often, I'm happy. I find I just want to be close to someone who understands me and who actually cares, I guess. Sex is like candy, you eat it and then it's gone and that's the end of that, and it loses its attraction pretty quickly. People have told me that your first time is the greatest disappointment of your life, and I can see why. I just want to enjoy being with her and around her, I miss her a lot. So yeah, don't worry, I think you're actually the better off for this. But one day you'll find someone, just wait. Believe me, if you wait, it's worth all the time spent alone when you find somebody really different.

[Quercus]

Know how you feel :cool:
Although I seem like pretty tough on the outside, truth is im just as soft as a kitten on the inside.
I broke up with a girl because she wasnt comfortable with cuddling, or being affectionate. I wasnt looking to sleep with her, I just liked cuddling.

[CleoP]

I'm a girl, and I know what you guys mean. Not all of us girls want sex... I definitely don't yet. Just cuddling and being affectionate that way would be enough for me.

[Magenta]

You are certainly not the only one who feels this way. I do the exact same thing with my pillow and that is perfectly okay. In my opinion, I think cuddling is far better than sex because there's less pressure involved, especially within our age group. With kids having sex younger and younger, sometimes it feels like we're expected to do these things and if you don't want to, you're not normal when that's not true.

At the moment, any girl or guy I'd be interested in would have to be into cuddling. I'm very physically affectionate, personally, because I'm very shy with words... I would just never go as far as anything sexual.

[Anna G]

I have a boy I have been friends with from 4th grade nothing sexual just very good friends. We have hugged just to greet each other I helped him meet a girl he wanted to talk to one time. Both of us virgins and proud of it. I have never saw a real penis and he would like to see breasts. I know he would keep it a secret but I fear it will change the the relaxed relationship we have.

In bed I have two pillows one just to cuddle with some times my big cat sleeps with me she feels warm and cuddly.

[WoShiDavid95]

Welcome to my world, I feel the exact same way.

[dark_soul777]

*nods in response to OP*

[unnamed94]

I feel the exact same way. i would find a girl that would love to cuddle. most of my friends relationships are almost completely based on sex. a relationship shouldnt be like that. you are not the only one who is looking to have a relationship different the the usual ones.

I add my name to this number. I'm still a virgin, and I'm perfectly comfortable to keep it that way until I know that it's the right time one day. I'm much more desirous of emotional closeness. I like this girl, but I don't want to have sex with her. But when I can just enjoy being around her and "cuddle," as you say, 'cause I don't get to see her very often, I'm happy. I find I just want to be close to someone who understands me and who actually cares, I guess. Sex is like candy, you eat it and then it's gone and that's the end of that, and it loses its attraction pretty quickly. People have told me that your first time is the greatest disappointment of your life, and I can see why. I just want to enjoy being with her and around her, I miss her a lot. So yeah, don't worry, I think you're actually the better off for this. But one day you'll find someone, just wait. Believe me, if you wait, it's worth all the time spent alone when you find somebody really different.

i wish i thought like you when i was still a virgin, my frist time sucked. wait for a person you actually love to do it, dont rush into things. look for that emotional closeness with a person first before you think about doing it.

[unnamed94]

sorry for double post. erase this please.

[Syvelocin]

Oh God, I love cuddling. Probably even more-so now that I'm in my first major lesbian relationship, ha. I'm perfectly content to just stay in bed in the morning with whoever is there with me (not that it varies, but I've always been into cuddling and I've been with a few people since I started dating of course). I don't have issues waking up for work because I have trouble sleeping, it just looks so unappealing when you're wrapped up in the embrace of someone you love. That's why Sunday morning is my favourite time/day of the week.

Of course, my last three or so relationships weren't sexual, so I guess you have to make up for it somehow. Not that they were only sexual before, but a healthy mix of the two. Even when I was a kid I was dating to eventually find my partner in life. Which to me is more like an incredibly close friend. So of course I value emotional and physical closeness more than sexual activities even when I still partook in them.

Being a guy and being into cuddling, you have some disadvantages, but overall you're lucky because many girls go crazy over a guy that actually enjoys that type of contact in large amounts. Let alone the nice break that is a guy not trying to get into her pants. Some girls just can't for the life of them get their guy to sit down on the couch and just cuddle with them. There often has to be some sexuality involved to get them to do that. :/

[Tommy-]

There is nothing I want more than to hold the girl I like in my arms and cuddle her, I would prefer it to having sex with her

[Smeagol]

Personally, I would love to cuddle... gosh, yes... however I am often described as being as cuddly as a cactus.... :( I'll find another likeminded, kind, cuddly cactus out there somehow :)

[LuckyLuke]

Im not like a lot of guys, and some girls who want somebody they can go sleep with when they are horny. I don't want to have a girlfriend just to be fuck buddies, im not about that. More then anything I just want a girl I can cuddle with and put my arms around and call mine. I am "snuggle starved" as weird as it sounds for any 15 year old dude, I cuddle with my pillow all the time and then I fall asleep like that and when I wake up I feel good then I see that its actully my pillow next to me. This isn't really a question I just needed to put it out in the open. Does anybody else feel this way? Whether your a guy or girl.


You're not alone dude.

I mean, yes sex and other "fun" things are great too but I'd love a girl to cuddle. There's been many a nights when I've hugged my pillow, dreaming that it was a beautiful girl. And when I was dating my ex, there were few moments, aside from the first kiss, that I enjoyed more than holding her waste or hand when walking around, holding her in the movies, and sitting on the couch with her head on my chest.

I don't know why, but I think the idea of, "this is my girl, she's beautiful, and she's mine. Back off" is what I liked. That, and the warmth from her body, being able to hear and feel her heart beat, and feeling her soft hair as she rested on my chest. Just knowing that there's this gorgeous, intelligent girl who liked me so much that she wanted me to hold her, protect her made me feel so warm.

There's few greater feelings than that.

Wow, I miss having a girl.

[jumpthedog]

Dude, I know exactly what you mean. Our generation is big time pressured to have sex and crap. It is as if the sense of close/non-sexual relationships are outlawed.

[audiophile5]

I am just like you.. I like to cuddle, to have someone there for me when im happy & when im sad..


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[Jag14]

I feel the same way.

[MaliciousBunface]

The pillow doesn't give you babies or drama. My pillow loves me (:

[BOSS]

Me and you both bro. I feel exactly the same way. Remember that your not the only one.

Skype name removed - Mike/ImCoolBeans

[bmxkid313]

Thanks, I thought I was the only one like this, I don't know why I want to cuddle all the time but, I wish I did. Maybe im just lonely?

[Eclipsical]

Freaking love cuddling.

I like secks too, but nothing better than to just chill with a lady in your arms :)

[bena3217]

im just like that! i am horny...and my gf is too but i told her we not going to have sex becuz ive seen how it fucks up relationships...the best thing for me to do is stare in her eyes and kiss her on the forehead and then look in her eyes and tell her i love her...some girls really like it when you have respect for them and not try and get in their pants evertime thet get together...but i would suggest if you are "cuddle starved" you get somebody to like just have a fun day with! go to the park and just have a nice day and keep her close to you! or you can focus on a girl and mabye make her yours and just like have fun together in a way that you dont have to get in her pants...PM me if you need advice

[Texas warrior]

My friend, girl friend, I cant tell for the life of me, lets my cuddle and it's the most amazing thing ever! Most 15 year olds are bragging about how they have lost there virginity, me no i'm fine cuddling.

[ShredtheGnar]

I feel the same way, being a junior in high school it work of bothers be how all of my friends are just concerned about losing their virginity instead of wanting to work towards a real relationship.

But alas, I can easily understand why this is all that matters to them. The likeliness of the relationship lasting through college is very slim when the two of you can be across the country from each other. Cuddling is very intimate, if it's not at the same level as sex it can't be too far from it. I get a feeling of euphoria from it, it's very pleasuring. And theres too far about it ending too early :lol:

[las vandle]

Ur not the only one im a gangbanger n tagger n stuff but not all us feel the need to fuk alll d time

[Philleeep]

I feel the same but I've actually have a friend who lets me cuddle her when i need it, sometimes i lay on her lap and she strokes my hair - equally as comforting :P

[josh cassano]

damn man i do the same f*cking thing every day. i mean like my friends talk about f*cking all the time and i just want some one to call mine and hug.

[Lonelygirl101]

T'aw, i wish i had a boyfriend like you :(
I'm also snuggle starved.
More boys should be like you.

[christianteen]

I feel the same way really but I don't cuddle my pillow.

[canadaski]

I feel the exact same way as most of you. I want sex to be subjective of a good, loving relationship. Sex is held on a pedestal by society; that is wrong. I want a guy that I can lay down with, run my fingers through his hair, hold him close, share deeper feelings with, and spend time with. I want a boyfriend, not a fuck buddy.

I watched something on teen love. Apparently romatic love activates the same areas of the brain as in a drug addict. The addiction and desire for romatic love is apparently much stronger than the sex drive.

[super storm]

dude lots of guys feel the same way so dont wory

[Lost in the Echo]

Damn thats exactly how I feel!

[loz4]

I love cuddling, and i'm happy to say my girlfriend and I cuddle every night we're together, all the time, though are relationship is quite sexual as well, we're always affectionate towards each other

[FullyAlive]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: