Tell us about your bad Relationships!

[Quercus]

Go ahead, Ill start typing mine :D

I moved to this little town in the Ozark mountains in Missouri.. I found this pretty little girl that made the little butterflies in my chest flutter... and we started to see each other. We took a big fancy to each other and got intimate... alot, luckily she was on birth control and there was no "end result" Time flew by and before we knew it A year had passed by. Now as that year had gone by, she changed... alot. She started to become very possessive, demanding I not listen to Colbie collet because I liked her song! True story! She demanded She know my password to all my stuff and to know where I was 24/7... I commended to all this stuff, becuase I was crazy, I thought she was the one for me and thought I could deal with it. Then she started to try and change me, She didnt like that I worked so much, or I joked around so much.. small things. So I changed them.. before I knew it she was wondering where "the old me had gone"

Now dont get me wrong, all of this was not her fault. And there are always 2 sides to the story, I worked a quite a bit and might of got aggravated at stupid stuff... But she delt with it.

Times grew hard for my family and we were forced to move.. We kept things going for 3 months, and yet I was still determined that she was gonna be my everything.. forever, and never would cheat on her! (And I didnt)
But the day came...

She called me one day, and she had a certain tone in her voice and knew something wasnt right.. I finally dragged it out of her that she was cheating on me.. With an old friend of mine too! I lost it... I had a seizure right there on the patio at my sisters house..

Becuase.. I thought she was the one, turned out she wasnt. A week went by and I learned to live with it... A few shots of the good stuff drowned the sorrow alittle.. but didnt do the justice. Then one day she calls me and tells me she wants me back, she begs and crys.. when I ask her why she tells me that the other guy cheated on her... Biggg shock huh? I took her back and things were normal for awhile, Then we just started to fight and it all got to stressfull.. Finally one night I told her I was done, and we broke it off..

Now she has moved on, and found another victim to suck there soul out of.... But ya gotta put the good memories in your pocket, and let the bad ones make you strong!
Although last week, she added me on facebook... and I got some closure. Thank god! :yeah: Dont trip and fall over young love my friends, learn to be happy with yourself before getting into a serious relationship.. after all if your not happy how can you make anyone else happy? :what:

Anyone?

[Jupiter]

Well, triple posting won't get more attention.

But, mostly, my girlfriend kept hitting me, and.. it got to the point where I had to hit her with a can of soup.

/yeah

[Aves]

Even though we never got into a relationship, I put up with more than some do in one, so I'm going to post about it.

There's this girl, let's call her C. Her and I have been friends since about November of 2010. I met her when she was going out with my (at the time) friend, A. Me and C started talking/texting regularly. Then I started to hear about the shit her and A were going through. He was always too busy and always had an excuse. It came to the point where he only talked to her once for two weeks. I knew he wasn't too busy because anytime I texted him, he'd respond pretty fast.

She kept debating breaking up with him, I said I'd support her if she did. After two months of debating it, he eventually broke up with her. Said she was acting weird. Even though she was thinking of doing the same, she was still upset. I was there for her the entire time. Beginning to end. I would talk to her for hours on the phone every night. This is when I started to really notice my feelings for her. But she was still not over A.

Eventually around May, I had basically given up on her. I started looking around at my options. I decided to try and go back out with my ex, K. It was obvious she liked me again, and I liked her too. C could tell this. As I would find out later, she liked me at the same time K and I started getting feelings for each other. I regret going after K, seeing as we only ended up going on one date.

On the 4th of July, I went to my town's celebration. Both K and C were there, along with a bunch of my friends. All of us hung out together, just having a good time. I started thinking of trying to make a move on C. However, K told me that we should go on another date sometime. Me, being naive, then refused to make a move on C for the rest of the day. Turns out C was hoping I would. Looking back, it was obvious.

Basically, those are my two low moments in our friendship. Because we've had several opportunities were both of us have liked each other.

The past few months, we've been on and off friends it seems. Whenever we are friends it tends to follow the same trend. We talk once, then a few days later get back into our nightly call routine. After that I start to develop feelings for her, again. She does too, but after her bad luck in relationships is kinda scared. Then she'll start liking another guy, one that if they break up it's not like losing a great friend you had forever then dated.

Basically, I've been the second choice guy for a few months now. Wonder where I even stand in her eyes right now.

[Quercus]

Even though we never got into a relationship, I put up with more than some do in one, so I'm going to post about it.

There's this girl, let's call her C. Her and I have been friends since about November of 2010. I met her when she was going out with my (at the time) friend, A. Me and C started talking/texting regularly. Then I started to hear about the shit her and A were going through. He was always too busy and always had an excuse. It came to the point where he only talked to her once for two weeks. I knew he wasn't too busy because anytime I texted him, he'd respond pretty fast.

She kept debating breaking up with him, I said I'd support her if she did. After two months of debating it, he eventually broke up with her. Said she was acting weird. Even though she was thinking of doing the same, she was still upset. I was there for her the entire time. Beginning to end. I would talk to her for hours on the phone every night. This is when I started to really notice my feelings for her. But she was still not over A.

Eventually around May, I had basically given up on her. I started looking around at my options. I decided to try and go back out with my ex, K. It was obvious she liked me again, and I liked her too. C could tell this. As I would find out later, she liked me at the same time K and I started getting feelings for each other. I regret going after K, seeing as we only ended up going on one date.

On the 4th of July, I went to my town's celebration. Both K and C were there, along with a bunch of my friends. All of us hung out together, just having a good time. I started thinking of trying to make a move on C. However, K told me that we should go on another date sometime. Me, being naive, then refused to make a move on C for the rest of the day. Turns out C was hoping I would. Looking back, it was obvious.

Basically, those are my two low moments in our friendship. Because we've had several opportunities were both of us have liked each other.

The past few months, we've been on and off friends it seems. Whenever we are friends it tends to follow the same trend. We talk once, then a few days later get back into our nightly call routine. After that I start to develop feelings for her, again. She does too, but after her bad luck in relationships is kinda scared. Then she'll start liking another guy, one that if they break up it's not like losing a great friend you had forever then dated.

Basically, I've been the second choice guy for a few months now. Wonder where I even stand in her eyes right now.

Wow... Intense... Sorry to hear :/
Sounds like you need to just need to jump the gun, and go for her!

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I was born in Ft. Wayne, and lived over by Terra Haute for awhile.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

Hi my name is Jayden Rain and I am 16. I totally understand what Jacob means, because just last week, the guy I thought i would spend the rest of my life with left.... Yes I know what your thinking.... Im only 16, but he was so sweet and I really loved him.
We went ice skating on our first date. I sware it was the best night of my life... When he took me home I couldnt help but kiss him because he was so sweet. He treated me like no guy has ever treated me before.
So a few weeks later we had sex. Not gunna give details...
Then a week after that my best friend Joshie told me that Justus [the guy] had sex with with this girl names Melisa. I didnt believe him untill i got a text from Melisa telling me to meet her in tne gym.... It was a weird text, because it was durring study hour but i did. Of course there she was in the gym in the middle of the gym macking on him. Can you imagine how I felt. So I walked away. A day later I getba text from him telling me that he never wants to see me again because he found someone BETTER. can anyone relate to that?

:yes:

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[Quercus]

Hi my name is Jayden Rain and I am 16. I totally understand what Jacob means, because just last week, the guy I thought i would spend the rest of my life with left.... Yes I know what your thinking.... Im only 16, but he was so sweet and I really loved him. <br />
We went ice skating on our first date. I sware it was the best night of my life... When he took me home I couldnt help but kiss him because he was so sweet. He treated me like no guy has ever treated me before.<br />
So a few weeks later we had sex. Not gunna give details...<br />
Then a week after that my best friend Joshie told me that Justus [the guy] had sex with with this girl names Melisa. I didnt believe him untill i got a text from Melisa telling me to meet her in tne gym.... It was a weird text, because it was durring study hour but i did. Of course there she was in the gym in the middle of the gym macking on him. Can you imagine how I felt. So I walked away. A day later I getba text from him telling me that he never wants to see me again because he found someone BETTER. can anyone relate to that?

I know how it goes.. i spent almost a year and a half with this girl.. i knew everything about her, or so i thought. Didnt know she was the cheating kind :/
iv learned that things get better, and once you step away from tthe situation you realize it was probably for the best that it all happend like it did.

[Black.Veil.Brides]

yeah... I guesd the people that cheat, are the ones that don't understand what its like to have your heart broken. But life goes on, you just go with the flow and try to make it through life.
sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we care about leaves, but the truth is, its not our loss its theirs because they left the only person in the world who would never give up on them.

eeerrrggg im tired.... stupid school. I had a pop quiz in math, homework from history, and i have that frikin simulater baby, wish me luck on the last two because im 100 percent sure i flunked the quiz!

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[Quercus]

yeah... I guesd the people that cheat, are the ones that don't understand what its like to have your heart broken. But life goes on, you just go with the flow and try to make it through life.
sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we care about leaves, but the truth is, its not our loss its theirs because they left the only person in the world who would never give up on them.

eeerrrggg im tired.... stupid school. I had a pop quiz in math, homework from history, and i have that frikin simulater baby, wish me luck on the last two because im 100 percent sure i flunked the quiz!

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The biggest thing i dont understand is this girl was cheated on twice herself!!! Then she turned around and did it to me?? Wth?
I like that (the second paragraph) it makes alot of sence.. and iv never thought of it that way. I dont get why people really cheat though... 100 years ago if a guy cheated on his wife he was hung by the knads and rotten vegtables thrown at him... today at times they are praised and congratulated for how many girls they can sleep in a week, its acceptable by todays standerds (not by mine)
I thought alittle about, as to why people cheat.. are they attention seekers? Are they just searching for a thrill, an adrenaline rush? Orrr do they just wanna be jerks?

:)
Im pretty tired myself, id been working most of the day.. loong day!
Im glad i never had to go through the baby simulator thing... im pretty good with kids, but not sure about the robot babys lol

[Ambrosia]

Im pretty tired myself, id been working most of the day.. loong day!
Im glad i never had to go through the baby simulator thing... im pretty good with kids, but not sure about the robot babys lol

Please do not hijack threads (Even your own threads) with new conversations not relevant to the topic at hand!

I don't think I've ever had a good relationship. This last guy took the icing on the cake though. He was 23, and looked like a 32 year old crackhead. He was seperated from his wife, and had two kids. He took every chance he could to make me feel like I was dirt, and to point out he was better than me in all ways, and that his exes were prettier than me. Christmas Eve he told me he was moving back to Houston because he got kicked out of his house (Like a loser). He would be moving 2 feet from his ex girlfriends house. We did not break up. A few days later, I get a call from his mother to tell me she liked me so much better than his ex, and she wished he would have kept me, and that he had actually only gone to Houston to pick up his ex girlfriend and bring her back here.

Long story short, he got the bitch pregnant while him and I were dating (She is underage, I think?) and brought her bitch ass back here and didn't have the balls to tell me.

[ImCoolBeans]

Well, this relationship started out pretty strong, but after about two months it turned to complete shit and then we dragged that on for another 3 months >.>

We would just fight all of the time, ignore eachother, yell at eachother. It was just a terrible situation and really not a loving relationship. Learned my lesson there.

[Moxie]

Any bad relationship I've had is mostly due to my not liking my partner nearly as much as they do me.

About a year ago, I met a nice, attractive, smart, funny guy. Everyone thought he was fun to be around. I don't know why I agreed to go out with him, but I did. After a few weeks, he told me that he felt so comfortable around me that he was pretty sure he was in love with me. I just said "oh, that's nice" and left it at that. It got to the point where I was basically playing with the guy's feelings, because I didn't like him at all, and here he was "loving" me. After a while, I told him that I wanted to stop seeing him. He asked me why, and I didn't tell him. That was that.

I don't know if I'd call that a "bad" relationship. That's how all my relationships go, and how all my relationships end. Same with my "friendships", really... maybe I just shouldn't form "bonds" with people anymore. They never end well.

[Spook]

Well, triple posting won't get more attention.

But, mostly, my girlfriend kept hitting me, and.. it got to the point where I had to hit her with a can of soup.

/yeah

LOL---sorry, I just find the soup kinda funny- "Eat campbells, babay!"

Well for me, my boyfriend would cuss at me all the time, push me into doing things I wasn't ready for (like feeling up, and bj + hj [the second two of which I didn't do]), and he would hit on other girls and go "She's hot" or "Look at those sexy legs" right in front of me!!! I dropped him like a dumbbell, and he won't admit he got tossed. ;)

[derkderpderp]

Eek!! I had a pretty bad relationship for almost 3 years, but yeah, here's my story:

In year 10 (i was 14 going on 15), there was this girl i liked, i sat next to her in Science because we had some weird seating plan, but yeah, i sat next to her and her best friend noticed that i liked her, now her best friend and the girl i liked (the girl's called Layla, her friend is called Sanya), well they were really close, and one day Sanya who had just gotten into a relationship came up to me and told me that Layla liked me too, that i should ask her out, so i did and she said yes.
6 months pass, we are both getting on well, we are both quirky and totally weird, but Layla had this thing about hitting me when she was frustrated, about physically venting her frustration out on me and often taking the piss out of me, even flirting with other guys, but i didn't see it as much, i was used to being bullied and i ignored it, claiming that we were in love, but yeah, 6 months into our relationship she gave me a letter, explaining how she only got with me because her best friend had a boyfriend (Sanya's relationship failed) and because she knew i was crazy about her, she apologised loads and i, like an idiot, said it was ok because i believed our feelings were real, at least by then. To show my dedication to her and our bond, i even bought her her prom dress.
At our secondary school prom, we had a moment in which i felt like we could be together forever.
1 and a half years pass and we are both now in the same college together, doing our AS level studies and having a fair amount of time together, we're happy, but we are both in different classes because we both took different subjects. I, like an idiot, assumed everything was ok, that we were 'happy'. December 2010, just under 3 months before our 3 year anniversary, i find out she has been cheating on with various guys.

Now, this may seem like nothing, but this is where the shit really hit the fan.
Our group of friends in college, were well, all the same, i was the odd one out, i was always running around after them making them happy and they knew i didn't care much about myself as long as they were happy, but yeah, i break up with Layla, the rest of the group find no need for me anymore and they decided to be more open about how shit they treat me.

I break away from even them, so now i'm alone, completely.
The 'friends' and Layla decided to jump me once, they cornered me outside college and robbed me, they also threatened me with a broken glass bottle.
After that, i didn't go to college much and i am now in my 3rd year doing different courses while they are either in uni or working.

THAT sucked.


Eek, now my feelings after that have been shaken, majorly, but eek, i found that being on my own is so much easier, it's just much much more free.
:D

[Princess Ariel]

It was my most recent.
He broke up with me since I didn't put out, and that I'm never in the kitchen.
He did it over feacebook because he's too scared to say it to my face.

[Quercus]

It was my most recent.
He broke up with me since I didn't put out, and that I'm never in the kitchen.
He did it over feacebook because he's too scared to say it to my face.

I hate people that are cowards and to scared to do it in person. I waited almost a week to break up with a girl just cause i didnt wanna do it over txting.

[love...sophia]

blaaah..hate heartbreak <\3