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Bigswedishboy
January 20th, 2012, 09:24 PM
Hey, I'm gonna start off saying I have no emotional attraction to anyone and I no everyone around my age in the nearest town and nothing no girls I like and expesually not guys. Am I and asexual?

Biscuithead13
January 20th, 2012, 09:48 PM
Well, just because you dont like anyone right now doesnt mean your are asexual nessecarily. It just means you dont have a crush on anybody lol. Eventually you'll probably find someone who you grow to love, but you just haven't met them yet.

Trombonist72
January 20th, 2012, 09:53 PM
you just gotta keep looking for that special someone

Bigswedishboy
January 20th, 2012, 09:56 PM
They say something normally happens that causes asexuality well I haven't liked anyone in a full year next month since my ex ripe my heart out

Biscuithead13
January 20th, 2012, 09:58 PM
They say something normally happens that causes asexuality well I haven't liked anyone in a full year next month since my ex ripe my heart out

Your probably just still trying to get over it. It takes time, and you arent asexual because I'm assuming you like your ex when you dated.

Jupiter
January 20th, 2012, 10:02 PM
Sometimes, buddy, our lives aren't all about sex and emotional feelings towards anyone.

Bigswedishboy
January 20th, 2012, 10:23 PM
Your probably just still trying to get over it. It takes time, and you arent asexual because I'm assuming you like your ex when you dated.

That was a year ago people change sadly

Rayquaza
January 21st, 2012, 10:38 AM
A possiblity but unlinkely, most people have an attraction to something. You could wait it out more and see if anything changes.

TheBlackRose321
January 21st, 2012, 01:04 PM
If you have no attraction to anyone I guess you are

dantheman5000
January 21st, 2012, 03:50 PM
i thought asexual meant you can have sex with yourself. kinda like some certain animals.

UnknownError
January 21st, 2012, 03:51 PM
Lucky fuck. Being Asexual makes everything easier.

VirtualTeen9000
January 21st, 2012, 06:05 PM
dont worry dude , the same thing happend to me , a girl hurt my feelings and i lost feelings but now i met a new girl which is very nice n all and i got my feelings back :)

ImCoolBeans
January 21st, 2012, 06:11 PM
Moved to teen sexuality

CrossingtheCourtyard
January 21st, 2012, 06:38 PM
To my understanding I thought asexuality was more about a lack of sexual feelings but you can still have emotional and romantic attraction--I could very well be wrong.

That said, you may not necessarily be asexual. Only you know for sure. You very well could be asexual, you may just not have met someone who turns your crank, only you know.

Bigswedishboy
January 22nd, 2012, 06:41 PM
i thought asexual meant you can have sex with yourself. kinda like some certain animals.

Haha no

kenoloor
January 23rd, 2012, 10:12 AM
Being asexual means you do not feel sexual attraction towards anyone, ever. And that doesn't mean that just because you don't have a crush, you're asexual. Info about asexuality: here. (http://www.asexuality.org/home/overview.html)

If you simply don't have emotional attraction, you could be aromantic. For more information about romantic orientation, here you go. (http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Romantic_orientation)

Bigswedishboy
January 23rd, 2012, 07:43 PM
Being asexual means you do not feel sexual attraction towards anyone, ever. And that doesn't mean that just because you don't have a crush, you're asexual. Info about asexuality: here. (http://www.asexuality.org/home/overview.html)

If you simply don't have emotional attraction, you could be aromantic. For more information about romantic orientation, here you go. (http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Romantic_orientation)

Sorry I'm unclear in my mind emotional is sexual

kenoloor
January 23rd, 2012, 09:27 PM
Sorry I'm unclear in my mind emotional is sexual

No, sexual is physical.

Bigswedishboy
January 23rd, 2012, 09:37 PM
No emotional feeling no psychical feeling. Mind over matter in my mind

kenoloor
January 23rd, 2012, 09:43 PM
No emotional feeling no psychical feeling. Mind over matter in my mind

Yes, but there is a separation between what controls your physiology and the romantic centers of your brain.

Bigswedishboy
January 23rd, 2012, 09:48 PM
Yes, but there is a separation between what controls your physiology and the romantic centers of your brain.

Maybe I am just trying to get over it my ex just texted me and I dropped everything to text back