brother moving back....

[cjm1991]

Ok so I'm 20 and still live at home, going to college of course. My brother is 23 and he is having financial difficulties and has been forced to come back home temporarily. I know he jacks off and he knows that I do as we have exchanged pornos. My thing is that I don't want him to walk in and caught me in the act, as I have never been caught and don't plan on getting caught. Even tho he knows I do it I still don't want to get caught, because its just to embarrassing. His room is right next to mine and you can even hear the tv when it really low and also the computer (porn) use. So how do I avoid getting caught and having him not hear the porn sounds? I'm not loud when jacking even tho I moan at climax, but still not loud. How can I bring up this sensitive and embarrassing discussion? We are both adults but its still hard because jacking off is one of the toughest subjects for me, even at the docs office at 15! Comments, suggestions!!

[Hermes]

The first thing to do would be to have an agreement that you knock before going into each others rooms. That avoids the possibility of him walking in while you're doing it.

If you are trying to avoid him hearing any tell tale signs one possibility would be to do it when there is enough noise coming from his room that he won't hear what you are doing in yours.

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[Misfit]

Well why don't you acquire a set of headphones? that should deal with the sound, as for him walking in on you, what I do is I place a doorstop under the door its a pretty crude method but it hasn't failed me yet.

[CoolGuyXD]

Well if he knows you do it and he does it too then I think he won't care if he sees you. If you watch porn on the computer then you can have one headphone in your ear and none in the other so you can hear what people are doing around you. Also lock your door. If you do get caught then Just talk to him. You are both mature and adults. He will understand because you are his brother. Hope this helps!

[RickyCurious]

Well if he knows you do it and he does it too then I think he won't care if he sees you. If you watch porn on the computer then you can have one headphone in your ear and none in the other so you can hear what people are doing around you. Also lock your door. If you do get caught then Just talk to him. You are both mature and adults. He will understand because you are his brother. Hope this helps!

agree

[Rayquaza]

buy some headphones. either that or approach him, i dont see the harm since you both do and your brothers.

[senior.2013]

Headphones, knocking rule, locking the door. We all need some privacy.

[disguy15324]

You're brothers. You're adults. You both know each other jacks off... if you really care then I would lock the door, or like the others said, create a knocking rule.

[smexykid]

i mean i get what the guy is saying...but he is your bro and its not like it is some stranger but yea purchase headphones and lock yo door!

[Steve01]

Who cares if u get caught your. Bros its. Normal

[IrishWristWatch]

Do it before or after a shower? Then the running water will overpower the sounds

[xXsnowboarderXx]

Headphones, door lock, ipod ipad or laptop w/ headphones. All of these work for not getting caught

[Jupiter]

Do you have a lock?

[Saxophone 44]

James Bond trick: sprinkle salt on the floor as to give you a warning when he's coming to your door.

[Jupiter]

James Bond trick: sprinkle salt on the floor as to give you a warning when he's coming to your door.

how exactly would that help?

[jay_]

I would love it if my brother moved home. Him and I never really talked because he was at college since I was really young.. him and I hung out over Christmas break and we got along really well (we had more in common).. I'm going to stay with him for a few days over spring break, I can't wait.

I wouldn't care if my brother caught me masturbating, I'd just rather him home!

[Lakai]

If you have a lock use that. If not, then have an agreement of knocking before entering also buy some headphones! Even the Dollar Store has cheap ones.

[crustbag]

lock your door!

[jacob_1995]

like others have said, you should invest in a door lock or adopt and no-enter-unless-you-knock policy. As for porn, you can buy a pair of headphones for as cheap as 1-2$. On another note, you're both adults, you both know the other masturbates, you're brothers... Does it really matter if he hears a bit when you masturbate? I mean keep it private, but if he hears a bit, it's not the end of the world. It's completely normal and you're not 13 years old anymore! By establishing mutual respect for each other's habits and being accepting I'm sure it will work out just fine.

[coreyorama]

ive heard some people set up a sysyem that you put a sock on ur doorknob which says im jerking off please do not enter. that should work... kinda like paul rever.... one if by land and two if by sea wiht the lanterns

[Stronger]

Get some headphones for the computer(keep one earbud in other out or w/e), try not to moan, mute or turn off anything else

[danny7]

i wud tell him that i do, n if u hear noises not to freak out

[megatime]

U both no u jerk so wots the big deal

[StoneColdNicky]

James Bond trick: sprinkle salt on the floor as to give you a warning when he's coming to your door.

I wasn't thinking exactly that, but some kind of secret code message like that. Like guys do the tie in American dorms and stuff, right? Some kind of discreet 'Do not disturb' sign.

[SwaggaKid]

You could maybe try doing it in the bathroom or the toilet or something. And just watch the porn without sound. I know it sucks but if your really desperate you'll deal.

[bright]

you should wear headphones so he can't listen to the things you are watching and lock the door if you have a lock!

[Danny.Robertson]

I have a slide lock on the inside of my door which can't be undone from the outside, I also have a security system in my room so my parents or brother can't get to stuff I own. Don't you love being employed.

[Bobby08]

I would talk to him about it and so what if he catches you maybe you all could even jack off together. or even take it further :)

[Boroboii]

Just have a rule like a hanger on the door handle like you see in movies so you dont walk in on eachother! .. or just do it in the shower

[StoneColdNicky]

I have a slide lock on the inside of my door which can't be undone from the outside, I also have a security system in my room so my parents or brother can't get to stuff I own. Don't you love being employed.

That security system sounds interesting. And the clothes hanger idea is a good one. It would be innocent enough to see one and not everyone knows what it means like the tie.

[YOUNGFLYGUY]

I would talk to him about it and so what if he catches you maybe you all could even jack off together. or even take it further :)

I would do the same