things that haunt me

[Salvi]

im feeling really depressed and stuff its like why am i even living anymore. I'm ugly and no one wants to date me and as a result i try to find love on the streets...
i know im never going to be truly happy :/ so why live anymore? my family isnt really accepting so i cant even be myself and i always have to constantly hide. fml

[Amaryllis]

I know it hurts and sometimes it's like the world and you are so hopeless - things won't improve. But honey, you can't change others if they do not wish to change. However, -you- are in control.

You choose to let it affect you - or you choose to laugh at it, learn from it and move on. Self-esteem, self-confidence and self-concept are what you need to survive and be happy in life. When you know who you are and love yourself, it won't matter if you have a girlfriend or if your parents think you're the greatest thing in the world.

Simply because you can't find a date, or your family doesn't understand you, doesn't mean you're hopeless at life. No one can change you except you. You don't have to hide, just be whatever you want to be, but don't keep the negative traits, strive to be better every single day. As you improve on yourself, you'll find it has a ripple effect on everyone around you.

If you tell yourself you'll never be happy - you probably never will. Someone once said the earth was the centre of the universe - now we realise it isn't. Happiness is in your reach, so strive towards it - you only have one life to chase the stars.

[jegoss02]

I know it hurts and sometimes it's like the world and you are so hopeless - things won't improve. But honey, you can't change others if they do not wish to change. However, -you- are in control.

You choose to let it affect you - or you choose to laugh at it, learn from it and move on. Self-esteem, self-confidence and self-concept are what you need to survive and be happy in life. When you know who you are and love yourself, it won't matter if you have a girlfriend or if your parents think you're the greatest thing in the world.

Simply because you can't find a date, or your family doesn't understand you, doesn't mean you're hopeless at life. No one can change you except you. You don't have to hide, just be whatever you want to be, but don't keep the negative traits, strive to be better every single day. As you improve on yourself, you'll find it has a ripple effect on everyone around you.

If you tell yourself you'll never be happy - you probably never will. Someone once said the earth was the centre of the universe - now we realise it isn't. Happiness is in your reach, so strive towards it - you only have one life to chase the stars.

She's right. The physical stuff. It's just there. But all the emotion you feel towards the reality is just made up. If you dot want to fear something, don't fear it. If you what to love something, love it. Something makes you feel like you just can't live anymore, turnaround and say I am who I am. Abide by the almighty phrase "YOLO". You can make the bra out of it. But if to don't, you can't go back an change it. Why waste a perfectly good 75 years only to die. No. You spend 75 years and you get your money's worth out if it. Don't fml. Fuck their lives. You should be the one on top. People put you down, fight back.

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