Help! I think i just did something really bad

[Inopotamo]

Right, so this happened today. I know it's story telling, but i think it needs to be known

I am good mates with my neighbour who is 23. I'm 16 and i'm over at her house because i lost my house keys and can't get inside. she heads upstairs, and i don't see her for a while. So i head up to see whats going on and i find her in her room completely naked. It was kinda shocking at first, but she said it was fine and all. My hormones kinda got the better of me and i stayed in instead of doing the clever idea of just walking out. She is still naked at this point, and grabbing some clothes and i just say out of nowhere for some reason "you look really hot naked", she turns and smiles all embarrassed like, and then i walk up and start to kiss her. She doesn't refrain and i put her on the bed while we are kissing. and then we had sex. At the time it was great, but now i realise i have done something terrible.

How do i deal with this situation now?

[RadioPlayer]

Well, first of all, don't make a habit of it. What's done is done, but don't go back for seconds. You could go back and tell her that it's bothering you and see what she has to say and talk it out. But besides that, I dunno that there's much else you could do.

[Inopotamo]

Well, first of all, don't make a habit of it. What's done is done, but don't go back for seconds. You could go back and tell her that it's bothering you and see what she has to say and talk it out. But besides that, I dunno that there's much else you could do.

I have spoke and i said "sorry, what we did was wrong, i don't know what came over me. It shouldn't have happened"

She said that it's done now, and that it's no changed anything, but i just have this feeling of wrong inside my gut, and if word gets out, i'm in deep trouble.

[Truth]

May I ask, what's the big problem? What you did was completely legal, and most boys your age will envy you for getting a 23 year old. (Well it is legal where I live, not sure about where you are.)

Can you give information as to why this is bothering you? Do you think it'll ruin your friendship?

[StoppingTime]

May I ask, what's the big problem? What you did was completely legal, and most boys your age will envy you for getting a 23 year old. (Well it is legal where I live, not sure about where you are.)

Can you give information as to why this is bothering you? Do you think it'll ruin your friendship?

People find it immoral, as do I, to have, to put it colloquially, "casual fucks."
Sure, some people may envy him, but it isn't something he want's the world's biggest spotlight on, and I don't blame him.

OP:
Honestly, it's in the past now, you can take what happened however you want.
In my opinion, you made a mistake, people do, you will learn from it, it won't happen again. Don't get worked up over it.

[Truth]

People find it immoral, as do I, to have, to put it colloquially, "casual fucks."
Sure, some people may envy him, but it isn't something he want's the world's biggest spotlight on, and I don't blame him.

OP:
Honestly, it's in the past now, you can take what happened however you want.
In my opinion, you made a mistake, people do, you will learn from it, it won't happen again. Don't get worked up over it. Why would you ever put your believes on someone else? No one wants to know if you believe it is immoral. It is not your place to judge anyone. (May I also ask why you consider this "immoral"? Don't tell me religion either.) I know you didn't mean to offend him, but what he did was perfectly normal in our world. Most people have multiple sexual partners before they get into a serious relationship. ;)

As you grow up, you get used to having sex. It really means nothing in a few years when you look back on it, so don't be so worried.

[Joshh97]

Did you use protection? If not, you may want to like yanno.

If you did. Then you should be fine mate. I guess just retain a strong friendship, and perhaps you can laugh about it in months to come...

[NomSan]

I'm pretty sure it's legal in the UK, so don't feel bad about it.

[GabAngel06]

People find it immoral, as do I, to have, to put it colloquially, "casual fucks."
Sure, some people may envy him, but it isn't something he want's the world's biggest spotlight on, and I don't blame him.

OP:
Honestly, it's in the past now, you can take what happened however you want.
In my opinion, you made a mistake, people do, you will learn from it, it won't happen again. Don't get worked up over it.
I agree with StoppingTime. I honestly think this is the best answer and it would really help you, if you take this.

[ima_dude]

Look man most dudes would be stoked to have done what you did, but if your not conmfortable with it that's a matter of your personal preferenceand that's fine to. Just remember most dudes wouldn't be concerned about it at all! Also if its because she's older don't worry about it... One buddy of mine had sex twice with an older girl (she was 17 and him 15 at the time) and he said although it was kinda awkward it was really good so he was glad it happened.

[Human]

well she let you so there's nothing wrong with it...

[Inopotamo]

Thanks guys, i feel a lot better now. I just felt like i've done something wrong in many peoples mind, but after reading some posts, i feel like it's fine now.

:)

[Burn007]

i can post an essey or something but dont have time or nervers

all normal if you arent siblings

you feel bad cuz you were friends before

[Rayquaza]

it's over, just try not to do it again. You better hope for your sakes you used protection

[Electra Heart]

Well... what's done is done... I wouldn't recommend doing it again...

[Saxophone 44]

May I ask, what's the big problem? What you did was completely legal, and most boys your age will envy you for getting a 23 year old. (Well it is legal where I live, not sure about where you are.)


Where do you live?!? Sorry. I wouldn't worry about it, as long as you both accept it and you didn't film it. That would be bad if she got pissed at you.