Am I the only one?

[BOSS]

I've noticed a slight pattern here with allot of teens here. Almost every one I know on my skype have asked me allot of odd questions like "how big are you""do you want to see mine""can I see yours""do you want to wank" So on and I've always said No and I've never wanted to ask those questions. But it seems to me that I'm the only one I know that's like this...is there anyone else here who gets asked these kinds of questions but always shoots them down because they seem...gross to you??? Please just so I know I'm not just a little goody two shoes pussy who wont do anything.

[CoolGuyXD]

I some times get these but I also say no. Sure some ask how big I am and I tell them but never show.

[Chris95]

If people are asking you those questions you need to report them to a moderator.

[TurboDieselBandit]

I can certainly understand the curiosity but I don't really think the web is the "best" place to do stuff like that. Better in person for multiple reasons, it's safer for your reputation can lead to things you can't do over the web, and you don't break VT rules.

PS: BOSS, I love your signature! Love it! (made me LOL too) :D

[Saxophone 44]

I'm with you. I know it's quite insensitive, but if a stranger asked to do this over a webcam, I would flip out.

[Abyssal Echo]

I've noticed a slight pattern here with allot of teens here. Almost every one I know on my skype have asked me allot of odd questions like "how big are you""do you want to see mine""can I see yours""do you want to wank" So on and I've always said No and I've never wanted to ask those questions. But it seems to me that I'm the only one I know that's like this...is there anyone else here who gets asked these kinds of questions but always shoots them down because they seem...gross to you??? Please just so I know I'm not just a little goody two shoes pussy who wont do anything.

yea I get alot of those questions and offers.....Questions I usually will answer but I do not do web cam sex or share nude pics so don't ask.

[Watta Tem]

yeah, i agree with you.. someone also ask me those questions.

[BOSS]

I can certainly understand the curiosity but I don't really think the web is the "best" place to do stuff like that. Better in person for multiple reasons, it's safer for your reputation can lead to things you can't do over the web, and you don't break VT rules.

PS: BOSS, I love your signature! Love it! (made me LOL too) :D

lol glad you like it. I'm just a big Car guru and one of my favorite cars is the 1969 BOSS 302 Mustang and I thought the name sounded cool and kinda funny in a way.

[CarolinaDude]

"Can I see your's?" - I believe that's against the rules.

I get asked these kinds of things sometimes. I think it's kind of.. interesting. Throughout my entire life, I've been taught to respect others' privacy and be modest or whatever and then I come here and it's like "Whoa!" Lol.

I don't mind too much, though. But you can tell when some people are really pushing it. Like when they ask over, and over, and over...

[BeyondOne]

Well one major reason why is because everybody here is curious about others their own age. Instead of trying to go out and find people where they live since they might be scared, they come here where they know for a fact that others are curious and maybe willing.

However, I do believe it's against VT rules to take members off site to "show things". Not quite sure though.

[zack17]

hey man just go what u fell good with dont let any one make u do something u dnt want 2

[Rayquaza]

Reject any people that offer to trade pictures and webcam. Apart from that, theres nothing wrong with asking harmless questions. I personally don't, im way WAY over that stage. Most people here are just curious about finding themselves so don't get offended by it. By you putting your contact info on the site, and then accepting their requests shows that you're probably willing to talk about anything.

[Short Circuit]

I posted a thing in TWPR back in September about this topic. I have 63 people from this forum BLOCKED on MSN for asking the very same things you have put. I do not have skype, so do not know if you can block a user, but if I was you, I would!

[kai99]

If you arent comfortable you dont need to answer it

[supadupahitz]

I've had a few people hit me up on skype and ask questions like that. It's kinda weird, cuz it seems like it's mostly the guys that ask stuff like that (and I'm straight, very straight). On skype or in person, I'm always more comfortable talking to girls about stuff like that than guys. I mean, I talk about a few things with my best friends, but not in detail. Girls? They can ask me anything and I dont mind. Just seems kinda weird to have guys asking stuff like that.

[Liveoak]

I agree 100%. I was basically getting harassed for that all the time when I was logged in to Skype. It got old, real fast. I basically ended up not using either Skype or Yahoo messenger anymore because the requests were so frequent. Plus, it really interrupted some good conversations I've had with some real friends I've made here.

[Thanatos]

I used to get those constantly, they seemed to have dropped off a bit. Personally, I don't mind it, but it is a bit annoying to have someone you think just wants to talk end up asking you those things. I have met a couple people on here who do enjoy just talking on skype though, so I deal with it.

[Nellerin]

Don't answer if you aren't comfortable. But most teens are curious and this is just another form of experimenting.

[Turtle007]

Well one major reason why is because everybody here is curious about others their own age.

good point

[StoppingTime]

OK, this is completely illegal, and wrong in a number of ways.

It is considered child pornography, and not only that, you never know who is on the other side, and what's happening.

Absolutely do not answer these, report them on Skype because it is illegal, and if you can provide creditable evidence, send it to VT.

[ImCoolBeans]

Okay, first off, if you ever receive a message like that from a user off of this site report it immediately. That is not acceptable in the slightest and will not be tolerated. If you can provide a chat log and their user name action will be taken for sure. Secondly, since this really has nothing to do with this section's topic, I'm going to lock this. But bottom line, if anything like that ever happens again report it directly to a staff member. At least one of us (if not a few of us) are always online at some point or another.
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