He is amazing..but

[uga_countrygirl]

I am crazy mad in love with this guy, who is, to me, a 'father' figure and is very much older than me. He is married with a kid, but I call him 'dad' all the time, as my real dad isn't around. I am the happiest I can be when I'm around him. He is a great listener and makes sure that I'm doing my best in school. We are together a lot, as we do things in the community with groups. We text a lot, but its more me than him, but I wonder if I should tell him how I feel, I want him to be able to express his true feelings..whether they are like mine or not, I am dying to know, he gives me these looks all the time, like " i wanna jump you" but maybe thats me fantasizing. Anywho, what do you think I should do?

[CarolinaDude]

He's married. You're 14. I'd highly suggest NOT doing anything or telling him anything about your thoughts. You can still be friends, and he can still be an adult you feel comfortable with, but please don't tell him your feelings and if you find out his feelings are the same as your's, RUN.

It's most likely a crush, anyway. You're probably just fantasizing. It's almost like when a student thinks a teacher is attractive or something.

Seriously, don't do anything. It'll end badly. Really badly.

[bwdude15]

Not trying to sound rude or anything...but if he's married and has kids...and you're only 14...it's NOT a good idea to tell him anything like that lol. you should probably try and get over him, because yeah....married?? and sooo much older right now...

[Jean Poutine]

You're jailbait. Even if for some reason he loves you too and you guys get physical, he can get in major trouble if anybody ever finds out, now or in the future.

If you really, truly love him, then stay the hell away.

[Zach_L]

to feel that way can be understandable since you are around him a lot. i would highly suggest you dont tell him though because it might make things awkward between you two and eventually lead to you not talking or seeing him at all. personally i think you are taking things the wrong way (the way he looks at you). i dont want to see you get hurt, and i dont want you to be devistated when you find out, if he doesnt (most likely, doesnt) feel the same way. hope you make the right choice!

[uga_countrygirl]

Thanks everyone for the feedback, just want to make the right decision, but talking about it on here has helped, kind of getting it off my chest.:)

[christianteen]

Jailbait.

Now that's the perfect word to describe this situation.

Just don't do ANYTHING stupid or irrational. This is the kind of situation where you need to think with your head. Not your heat or your hormones.