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January 16th, 2012, 04:16 PM
So I kind of want a girl to mess around with. I'm gay and closeted, but I'm planning to come out soon. The only problem is that I don't know of any girl that would be willing to fool around with me.
I'm single, never dated anyone before, and at the school I go to most of the people are straight, and the ones that aren't are either in the closet or too old for me or not interested.
I'm not saying that having an actual relationship would be bad, and if someone asked me out I would probably say yes. I just think it would be simpler for me and the other person if the connection remained strictly to friends with benefits. Or acquaintances with benefits. Or anything like that.
Any advice to help me find someone who might be willing? All my friends that are girls claim that they are straight, but sometimes I have to wonder if they really are or not.
I know I should probably just get over it and use my hand, but that's not nearly as fun as it used to be.
I'm single, never dated anyone before, and at the school I go to most of the people are straight, and the ones that aren't are either in the closet or too old for me or not interested.
I'm not saying that having an actual relationship would be bad, and if someone asked me out I would probably say yes. I just think it would be simpler for me and the other person if the connection remained strictly to friends with benefits. Or acquaintances with benefits. Or anything like that.
Any advice to help me find someone who might be willing? All my friends that are girls claim that they are straight, but sometimes I have to wonder if they really are or not.
I know I should probably just get over it and use my hand, but that's not nearly as fun as it used to be.