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rockymountainway
January 15th, 2012, 10:03 PM
So I'm attracted to both boys and girls.

With girls, I'm completely attracted. I love every feature of girls' bodies and I would gladly have sex, given the chance (no anal, though). I am also emotionally attracted to girls and I have a girlfriend. My attraction to girls is love, sexually and emotionally.

With guys, it's simply sexual. I'm attracted to penises and would gladly jerk a guy off, give a blowjob, or just masturbate with them. However, I would never have anal sex with a man or kiss a man. The idea of both are repulsive to me (I am kinda turned on by guys' asses, but only their buttcheeks). Because of this, I am not emotionally attracted to guys (save a few close friends).

Also (I'm really confused about this), I'm attracted to younger boys more than older men. I'm 16, so it's not as creepy as if I was, say, 30, but it's still odd. I like looking at boys anywhere from ages 12-18 or older, but especially if the older ones looks younger (general lack of body hair, skinny but athletic-looking, young-looking face). I sometimes like looking at guys in their 20's or 30's naked, but I really like seeing young-looking guys naked. A "perfect guy" would be about 14, have an average-sized penis (preferably uncut, but cut is fine), have some pubes, armpit hair, and leg hair (no chest hair or back hair, though. I find that gross), and have a really young-looking face. That would be an instant turn-on.

Soo...what AM I? Gay, bi, straight, curious, questioning...what?

senior.2013
January 15th, 2012, 10:13 PM
You seem, most likely, curious. Just about every teen goes through this. I did, its fading though. Since you have no emotional attraction to men, I wouldnt say you are bi or gay.

BeyondOne
January 15th, 2012, 10:15 PM
Your a teen.. Anything sexual will turn you on. I learned this very early and quickly lol

MalditoDia
January 15th, 2012, 10:17 PM
I feel the same way ! Bi .

Hermes
January 16th, 2012, 06:40 AM
Kinsey one (see Wikipedia article on Kinsey scale).

A lot of what you have said rings true for me too. With girls it is the whole package. I am in a straight relationship, I am attracted to her face and body, I love her, I love intimacy with her including hugging, kissing, necking etc. and I love having sex with her.

Like you I also like to see a guy's penis. If a guy strips off in the same room as me I'll check out his cock. If he was to masturbate in the same room as me I'd watch, especially as he cums and if he'd let me and I was single I'd gladly jack him off and I'd let him do the same to me. I have done mutual masturbation in the past - it was fun and, if I was single I'd do it again if the chance arose. Unlike you I have no desire to suck a guy off and like you I have no interest in anal or in kissing, necking etc. with a guy,

I wonder many other guys have the same orientation.

Interesting description about the guys that interest you BTW - old enough to be sexual but not old enough to look too manly.

ccrunner
January 16th, 2012, 10:15 AM
im going with curious i feel the exact same way except for the younger situation( but that does not make you a freak) i love women for everything but i love men for like sexually stuff i consider my self straight but curious

caden048
January 16th, 2012, 10:30 AM
most likely curious and most teens think about sex all the time so i wouldnt worry