Need guy help about my GF

[Oakley]

Ok so I have been dating this girl for awhile now, and im just stuck a little. I have kissed other girls and madeout with them, but i just dont know how to put the move on her..we hangout almost everyday (weekend) and we hold hands and see eachother at school. I even went to Georgia with her for a week with her sister and step dad. Any tips? like when i should do it and how? Thanks :)

[curryjacket]

Just don't over think it, man. I mean, don't do it when it's uncomfortable. Just make it special.

[Rapp]

just go for it, ull do it and itll be good before you know it ;) i had the same thing wit mine ;s

[christianteen]

I believe that sex shoudn't be used to advance a relationship. Become a little more connected before going though something so big.

[Oakley]

Oh i wasnt talking about sex, just making the move for the first kiss.... :lol:

[Clawhammer]

You'll know when the moment comes along. Don't force it, only ruins it.

[christianteen]

Oh i wasnt talking about sex, just making the move for the first kiss.... :lol:

Ahhh right. You didn't really specify that in your original post so I assumed sex. In that case just find a nice but not too mawkish scenario.

Do: At her house, at a not very crowded beach, at the park, your house

Don't: Rose garden, candle lit dinner, after serenading her

[Oakley]

Well when we hangout, if it gets late we always make a bon fire and lay in her hammock, so i was thinking that should be the place to do it.. hmmmm

[qmann8]

everything will work out, it will happen, the perfect moment will come and youll know to do it

[Oakley]

everything will work out, it will happen, the perfect moment will come and youll know to do it

I think there has been a couple perfect moments, i guess i just have to work up the courage to just do it..she talks to one of my close friends (girl) and and says she wants to kiss me so bad, and my friend sugests that she just do it herself, and she just says, but its the guys job too..

[LuckyLuke]

I think there has been a couple perfect moments, i guess i just have to work up the courage to just do it..she talks to one of my close friends (girl) and and says she wants to kiss me so bad, and my friend sugests that she just do it herself, and she just says, but its the guys job too..


I had the same exact problem dude and it took me FOUR MONTHS (yes, 4 months) to go for the first kiss. Frankly speaking, I felt like an ass.

What had me get over my fear and actually "grow a pair" was the realization that it's the very first motion, those 2 seconds of moving your body ever so slightly towards her, that are the most difficult and after that it's so effortless and amazing.

What also helped, and after literally waiting 4 months to kiss my ex gf- these are the "extremes" I went to, was not masturbating for 2 days before the date, buying a new cologne/scent I felt confident and sexy in, and telling myself before I made the move, "are you kidding me dude? There's a beautiful girl around your arm right now who really likes you and would love to be kissing you and you're sitting here like an idiot? Either kiss her or break up with her because if you're not going to do anything then she deserves a man who will."

Good luck and best wishes.

[shadowhunter320]

[QUOTE=curryjacket;1576802]Just don't over think it, man. I mean, don't do it when it's uncomfortable. Just make it speciai agree with him!

[randomme]

make sure you 2 are alone!!!!

[youwonthegame]

There tends to be a strong correlation between how much you *attempt* to plan something like this and how badly it goes... don't think too much. Which would you want: planned, protected, and boring; or spontaneous, hot, and passionate? Just go with the flow, the moment will come soon enough.