Girls Only, For my privacy I think the boys would laugh anyway

[spazzy chipmunk]

my friend and i are really good friends
she has lost her virginity but doesnt think that i know
shes 2 years older then me and i really want to have sex with her 4 some reason im not sure what shed say or if shed refuse totally and im not gay but i still want to, what should i do??

[CryingEye666]

welllll i know telling her you already know isnt a good thing, unless you know she wont get mad easily. if she gets mad easily, then dont tell her you know. but hmm im not sure actually, you could possibly tell her how you feel attracted to her maybe? and then go from there?

and im a boy, and no i dont laugh if im trying to help

[spazzy chipmunk]

welllll i know telling her you already know isnt a good thing, unless you know she wont get mad easily. if she gets mad easily, then dont tell her you know. but hmm im not sure actually, you could possibly tell her how you feel attracted to her maybe? and then go from there?

and im a boy, and no i dont laugh if im trying to help

thanks

[CryingEye666]

ya
i try
:)

[mynameisjane]

if she has a boyfriend, sex with a girl is still cheating. if not, you have to know if she'd be open to that kinda stuff. like is she homophobic? does she like girl on girl porn? if so then if youre both alone you could get kinda closer to her and compliment her looks. then read her body language. i cant really say anymore because i dont you or her and im worried that if i say more, you might do that and it doesnt work out and she tells everyone youre a lesbian and your not friends anymore. so think it out really carefully.

[Aηdy]

Don't worry about the guys, nobody is going to laugh at you here, because this community is about accepting everyone.

Because you and her are really good friends, its probally not a good idea saying anything because it could rouin your friendship. I don't know how old you are, but about your sexuality, you could just be going through a cirious phase, which will go away eventually, or you could be Bi-sexual, you like both guys and girls.

[Maverick]

^ I agree with Andy (rokmysox)

I think it's just best to not let your hormones get the best of you and don't take anything further than that. Especially if you're not sure she likes girls too. It can really ruin your friendship and you need to decide if it's worth the risk losing her as a friend.

[Sapphire]

^ I agree with Andy (rokmysox)

I think it's just best to not let your hormones get the best of you and don't take anything further than that. Especially if you're not sure she likes girls too. It can really ruin your friendship and you need to decide if it's worth the risk losing her as a friend.

QFT - I completely agree.

[Trebor]

Just tell her you want to. Or else truth or dare or else a lot of alchohal

[RequiemForADeath]

Please do not listen to trebor... no alcohol.. good lord..

anyways.. just ask her first what she thinks about lesbians and lesbian sex.. if she seems totally offended by it.. then you need to drop it. but if she seems okay and shes single (we dont want her cheating) then try and lead into you wanting her.. she might surprise you and go for it.

[baseballpro4life77]

mabey invite her over to ur house and say do u want to play truth or dare wen its ur turn to ask the ? if she says truth say would u ever kiss a girl if she says yes than that may mean she wants to kiss a girl if she says no than u could always be good friends

p.s im a boy and wen u say no boys allowed or boys cant read it makes them want to read more lol

[Loner Girl6]

Flirt with her,if she flirts back she could be interested...or just joking.However if it helps my friend and i both came out to eachother after flirting with eachother for years.

[.:BodyEnvy:.]

I think this is quite normal. I'm pretty sure that every girl goes through a "lesbian stage" in their adolesence. I think it is just because you are curious, your hormones are raging, and you want to see what would happen. I went through it, my friends went through it, and it's all perfectly normal. I'm past that stage now, but I totally know how you feel!! :)

[A.J.]

Its completely normal to have sexual feelings for your friend and maybe you should talk to her and ask how she feels.

[northskater110]

hmm lets see here

every kid goes through a stage during puberty that they fantasize about the other sex.. however, if you really r a lesbian, or a bisexual, you should ask her what orientation she is. i have a huge amount a friends, 2 that are gay, and a bisexual, and they dont mind being asked what their orientation is because they are proud of who they r. just try to flirt with her or do truth or dare and stuff like that


ps only a**whole guys would laugh at people in here, because most of us just want to generally help.


pm me if u need more help

[Sunrider]

That's normal to think of that, it might be the hormones making you curious or you might bi or gay, which are all perfectly natural.

As for you wanting to ask..
You could ask it and if it blows up in your face just say you were kidding.
Truth or dare, as someone mentioned earlier, might help find out if she's single and stuff.
And for god's sake, DO NOT USE ALCOHOL

I'm sorry for looking in the thread, but I'm just trying to help :)

[TeenInNeed]

Just tell her you want to. Or else truth or dare or else a lot of alchohal

you = stupid(no offense)

don't do what this kid says, i mean truth or dare can help things at points, but trebor.. don't ever suggest alcohol, that's a very stupid and blunt idea, and telling her straight out you want to can be very bad, it can ruin friendships.

and to the truth or dare thing, it can go a few ways, there are other things like trying to get her to skinny dip at a pool/hot tub with you or something, because that can get you a nice view even tho u might not get to have outright sex, it is very close.

[simpsonsfan450]

ya, Im a guy, and its kk, I understand. Ive wanted to have gay sex, but im not gay, lol. Its prob just a hormonal thing, and will go away( it did for me!)

[theschmizz]

same

[Aηdy]

ya, Im a guy, and its kk, I understand. Ive wanted to have gay sex, but im not gay, lol. Its prob just a hormonal thing, and will go away( it did for me!)

Please don't post in old threads, I know you're new but in the future please don't post in a thread over a 2 -3 months old, or 1 month if it is clear that the question has been answered.

same

Please say more than just one word in a post, it doesn't really help anyone.

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