Parents caught.

[camilo96]

ok. i do not know where to put this post... mods please feel free to move it if you have to. :)

um ok, so to begin with. i have been catching my parents having sex at night quight a bit recently. actually waking me up because they are "loud". when this happens i just put my headphones on and put the volume up. the next morning it is really awkward for me.

now the big problem. my dad let me play "angry birds" on his i phone. he had just gotten back from Colorado, on business and said he had taken some pics. so i went and looked, and he had like 4 folders of pics. so curiosity got to me, and i checked out all of them. on the last pic, "photo-stream" folder, he had like 30 pictures of him and my mom having sex! my mom willingly modeling and stuff! i am kinda freaked out. i dont want to tell them cuzz i dont want him to get mad. i am so confused. please answer helpful answers.

-all 100% true. please give me some advise :eek::confused::eek::confused:

[DerBear]

Nothing you can do, if your parents are into that stuff then i am afriad thats all that can be said. I would suggest trying to put it out of your mind, or try talking to them but I would not even know where to begin

[Desuetude]

ummm i've had the noisy sex thing and i do the same as you just shove my headphones on and try to ignore it. The photos i think it would be best if you didnt say anything, if you did your dad might have thought you were snooping and may get very annoyed, im sure your mum would be very embarrased and unable to even look you in the eye so maybe its best that you keep it to yourself.
I think you should just think that its good that its happening it shows that they are still together rather than going to split up, and its better than having to listen to them argue at 2 in the morning... believe me. :)

[Carlyle]

If your parents want to do that, you can't do much about it. You would be better of just not looking at his pictures again and not bringing it up, it would just make things more awkward. Honestly, just stick to what you already do when you hear them. As long as you don't mention it to them, it shouldn't make things too weird between your parents and yourself.

[Ambrosia]

In all honesty, there's nothing for you to tell them. It would be a silly and pointless waste of breath. What are you going to do? Sit your parents down and say, "Mother, father. I want you to know I saw the dirty pictures on your phones. I hope you are using protection." There is, in all honesty, nothing to tell them. You know that when a "mommy and daddy love each other" they're going to have sex. It's natural. Of course, if you were to say something to them (And you still have nothing to say to them) it would just make your dad mad that you went through his phone, and both of them embarrassed that you saw mommy and daddy naked.

Now the fact that they are loud...Well. Here a few months ago I woke up to the sound of my parents have sexual relations. In all my 18 years of life I had never heard that before from them so I was surprised. At my age, things like that aren't really as embarrassing to me as they are to my parents. The next morning, I walked into the living room. They asked me how I slept, and I made the comment of, "Oh, I didn't sleep very much. Some loud noises kept me up half the night!" And then got my coffee, and left them dumbfounded in silence. My sister and I simply made jokes about it for the nex few days, and my parents weren't loud again.

Just be mature about it. Forget the pictures, and if the noise is bothering you, make a joke of it.

[botwa]

don't tell them, just be happy that your parents love each other.

[Spook]

Okay...woah. I can imagine that this event was pretttty scarring. But, think this way. Parents are people too, just like us. :P They were your age once, and they probably thought the same thing about their own parents doing that stuff- Ewww.
I would just suggest to not mention it, just so that embarassment doesn't become an issue in the household. That would be a little awkward. The best you can do is try to forget- and stay away from that folder!!! :D