scared to come out. :[

[tylerh]

Alright so I'm thirteen and my middleschool is extremely homophobic and I'm bi which makes like impossibole to come out. Need Help!!!!!

[Abyssal Echo]

I was13 when I came out as gay. The only people I came out to were my real close friends and some of my cousins. it kinda slowly spread from there. Its a big step really think about it before you do it,,,because once said or posted you can not take it back.

[tylerh]

K thnx

[MysticalBurrito]

I understand the fear of coming out, but 13 is a little young to come out right now, especially if you're scared. The fact that you live in a judgmental/homophobic area will only cause you problems. Wait until you feel comfortable enough or if you really want to come out right now there's a thing called raising the middle finger and saying "Fuck you" to people that are big enough asshole to pick on you. I wish you the best of luck. :)

[tylerh]

Lol thnx with my moms language in know all abou the "middle finger"

[ben...]

I agree 13 is young. A little to young. I would wait until 9th grade in my opinion. I came out as bi to a few of my close friends. Believe me, word gets around ha.

[Guillermo]

Yeah, I would not recommend coming out.. Especially if your school is homophobic. Middle school in general is just not the best place to come out. You should probably wait until high school and then you will most likely know who's really there for you and who you really trust. Most importantly just make sure you feel comfortable before you do it.. I'd also recommend coming out to your closest friends at first

[KillerKing]

Okay, like everyone else said, 13, little young. But, I really wouldn't come out if I were you. The homipobia isn't worth the trouble and your best off waiting till your round people who are more understanding and people you feel comfortable with.

[BeyondOne]

Like others said I wouldn't come our yet. I mean, maybe start with telling your best first and see how that goes. After wait a few months and if you're ready, then do it then :)

[MalditoDia]

Agreed. you should tell those you trust

[caden048]

i came out to close friends at 14 and everything is actually fine with me.... also it got out around school one day but i denied it and everyone believed me cause i act straight...

[KarkatLuv]

i told a gossipy friend and now everyone in my year knows, that i don't mind, but she told everyone including the guy who i liked that i liked him! bad life move. FAIL!