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cooldude33
January 14th, 2012, 08:51 PM
Ive been dating a girl for a while
The other day she came over
She walked in on me while I was in the shower and saw me naked
She told me she was gonna dump me if I didn't shave my body
What should I do

senior.2013
January 14th, 2012, 08:54 PM
If she doesnt like it, thats her fault. You shouldnt have to change yourself for someone who youre in a relationship with.

BaNd
January 14th, 2012, 08:56 PM
i agree with senior 2013

BeyondOne
January 14th, 2012, 09:03 PM
From experience, if she is controlling I wouldn't get yourself into it

kingbudapa
January 14th, 2012, 09:14 PM
Agreed with senior

patrick2010
January 15th, 2012, 12:25 AM
i agree dont let her tell u what to do
if u statr listening to her now ur always
gonna be told what to do by her.
if she dont like what she sees id tell her
hit the bricks baby

BlueBoy
January 15th, 2012, 12:57 AM
u have to follow her if u love her man :)

Lego
January 15th, 2012, 01:08 AM
Ya if you love her and
She loves you shave not a big deal or too much to ask really

Chris95
January 15th, 2012, 01:11 AM
Sorry but she's not the one for you if she would dump you over that.

Tonebone88
January 15th, 2012, 01:45 AM
If you don't want to shave it then don't. If it makes her break up with you then clearly she's not the right girl for you.

spartanrob
January 15th, 2012, 02:26 AM
I don't really like body hair myself. If you like her give shaving a try. If you like it keep shaving if not move on.

NomSan
January 15th, 2012, 07:13 AM
I would never have a girlfriend who would control what I should do and stuff.

Iliqn
January 15th, 2012, 09:58 AM
If she doesnt like it, thats her fault. You shouldnt have to change yourself for someone who youre in a relationship with.

Totaly agree with you !

Sor3
January 15th, 2012, 01:02 PM
your body, your choice what you do with it, not hers

Short Circuit
January 15th, 2012, 02:00 PM
your body, your choice what you do with it, not hers

Correct answer, if she dont like it, dump her immediately

Wesley1369
January 15th, 2012, 02:04 PM
wow she needs to relax a little, maybe she was kidding? if she wasnt then shes pretty controlling and you dont wanna go near that

sth419
January 16th, 2012, 09:27 AM
its up to you dont save if ya dont want to, or have her help ya and then you shave her

caden048
January 16th, 2012, 10:38 AM
dude i just got out of a relationship in which she had me whipped and was so controlling.... plus i have figured out who i truly am.... i would breakaway from her and move on... u dont want to get yourself into that...

Clawhammer
January 16th, 2012, 10:45 AM
Don't be her whipped dog, kid. If you ain't good enough for her with your hair, you'll never be good enough without it. Don't live for her approval, move on and get someone worthwhile who actually cares about you and not about your looks.

willy93
January 16th, 2012, 12:38 PM
wow, if she was serious then i would let her go

Michigan48111
January 16th, 2012, 01:47 PM
If she doesn't like you how you are, move on and find someone who will. Why change things about you just to please someone else? What next, if she tells you to change your hair color, or get tattoo or something like that?

randomme
January 16th, 2012, 01:53 PM
you should consider breaking up with her as she should not be controlling you

xbox360boy1998
January 16th, 2012, 10:17 PM
I wouldn't do it. She has no right at this point to make such request. You being happy with yourself is all that matters. She need to accept you as you are.

MassiveAttack
January 16th, 2012, 11:06 PM
well, you could break up and not have to worry about her controlling you, or maybe she thinks that shaving would make you look better and then it may actually be worth it. in the end, its your body and its your choice.

qmann8
January 16th, 2012, 11:13 PM
dont let her control you at all. its your body

Core
January 16th, 2012, 11:28 PM
It's only as big of a deal as u make it, don't blow it out of proportion

RLuna
January 16th, 2012, 11:42 PM
Just talk it out with her. If she becomes all angry over it then dump her. She has no right to tell you what to do with YOUR body.

Abyssal Echo
January 16th, 2012, 11:50 PM
Ive been dating a girl for a while
The other day she came over
She walked in on me while I was in the shower and saw me naked
She told me she was gonna dump me if I didn't shave my body
What should I do

Dude I don't know what 2 think what she doing there in the first place....then have the nerve to walk in u ???? plus demand u shave ur body

if she can not accept you the way u r she'd have to go.

Vegito
January 17th, 2012, 12:03 AM
well, in all truth, i dont see what the big deal is with shaving your body hair, it WILL grow back, but shaving it because she told you to? no f'n way. She has NO RIGHT to tell you to do this, if shes going to dump you b/c of u actually doing something natural, such as growing hair, let her dump you, or even better, dump her. That is, unless you love her. If you love her, see if you can compromise. Maybe trim it, or shave parts of it. Unless you two are having sex, the hair shouldnt be a problem anyways. Ask her why she wants it to be cut so badly. Talk with her, but if shes too controling, and you dont really love her, dump her, and explain why. Give her another chance if you think its right, but she seems WAY too controling. Good luck in life, and take the matter seriously, but dont be too harsh, try to understand her side too before you do anything.

Benbomber
January 17th, 2012, 12:26 AM
Hah dont shave. If she likes you she should understand, and if she doesn't, your not for eachother.

christianteen
January 17th, 2012, 12:30 AM
Stand up for yourself. Don't let her tell you what to do.

Rayquaza
January 17th, 2012, 02:49 AM
Let her dump you.
She sounds like a bitch.
If she can't accept you for who you are.