Gonna lose my love?

[amscramhick]

So lately, I feel my boyfriend has been distant and been acting kind of weird. It's made me feel like I'm going to lose him. I wrote him a note and gave it to him. We didn't talk about it until the next day. And once we talked about it I thought things were going to be okay, but he just went right back to acting weird. Ad we haven't hung out in quite a while. I've given up on that because I feel he doesn't want to see me. I'm just terrified I'm going o lose him. And I'm really bad at talking and saying things for fear of making it worse. And I already tried talking. What can I do? I don't want to lose him..

[trzxv515]

I guess you should tell him to man up and you should have a serious talk about it. I know you already said that you have tried talking but I believe there's no other way to fix this, if it can still be fixed. Ask everything, no holds barred. Being his girlfriend, you have the right to know what's happening. If he still doesn't want to, I think it's time to put an end to your suffering and just move on.. It's hard but you deserve to be happy.

[amscramhick]

I guess you should tell him to man up and you should have a serious talk about it. I know you already said that you have tried talking but I believe there's no other way to fix this, if it can still be fixed. Ask everything, no holds barred. Being his girlfriend, you have the right to know what's happening. If he still doesn't want to, I think it's time to put an end to your suffering and just move on.. It's hard but you deserve to be happy.

I'm just terrified that if I do, he's just gonna dump me. I don't wat to lose him. When I'm with him, just he and I, is when I'm happiest. He makes me smile like no other. I lose him, I lose the source of my happiness. But also within that, he's also causing me a lot of tears. I just don't know what to do, I'm lost.

[trzxv515]

I'm just terrified that if I do, he's just gonna dump me. I don't wat to lose him. When I'm with him, just he and I, is when I'm happiest. He makes me smile like no other. I lose him, I lose the source of my happiness. But also within that, he's also causing me a lot of tears. I just don't know what to do, I'm lost.

Would you rather be "dating" him even if you yourself know that it only gives you tears or just end both of your sufferings? I know I'm in no position to say this but from what you have said, you just have to let him go. Before loving anyone, love yourself first. I believe that you should always save some love for yourself. Love yourself first before anything and anyone else. With what he is doing, does he still make you happy? With all the ignoring he is doing, do you still feel like he loves you? I learned that no one should ever make a person his or her only source of happiness because let's fact it, not everyone is here to stay. Be strong. :)