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jhsjsams719
January 14th, 2012, 12:40 AM
So I've been thinking that I was bicurious this whole time and I will eventually be straight later on, but the gay part just doesn't go away.
My sexuality is starting to clarify I think.
I've been saying I'm physically/sexually attracted to guys and emotionally attracted to girls. But I was thinking, maybe I'm just saying that because I know being gay is obviously not socially acceptable as much as being straight.
I've been checking out guys a lot lately...having sexual thoughts about them...thinking that this guy or that guy is hot or cute or whatever. I do the same thing with girls too but not as much as I do with guys.

I also asked myself, Would I rather kiss a girl or a guy...My mind said guy.
Would I rather have physical affections with a girl or a guy.. My mind said guy again.
But then, I asked myself, Would I rather commit to a girl or guy..My mind said girl...

I started to have conflict in my head, thinking WHY ME.

What do you guys think is going on for me?

MalditoDia
January 14th, 2012, 02:53 AM
Your confused lol but uour own the right track !

katelynnicole
January 14th, 2012, 05:06 AM
Hey kiddo, Ima girl but hey if u find guys attractive then u might be or u. Might be bisexual. Just try experimenting and if you like sexual interaction with guys more than you like it with girls then you're probably gay. And btw i wish you the best and Jesus loves you either way.

Short Circuit
January 14th, 2012, 05:06 AM
Only you can say if your gay or still bi. Once you accept it yourself, you will be able to move on with your life. Most will say, "Its your hormones", but personally, I think YOU KNOW your sexuality by now, accept it, embrace it, and move on.

BeyondOne
January 14th, 2012, 02:49 PM
No.. If somebody is still questioning then I don't think they do know their sexuality.

But dude, I'd just try experimenting with both. Whatever you like better then maybe that's the way you should go. If you like both then just say you're bi and move on. No matter what, we will be here for you if you need support. Best of luck :)

ben...
January 14th, 2012, 10:10 PM
I have similar thoughts. I am BI though. I am attracted to both sexes, but in general if it is a girl they have to be really attractive.

caden048
January 14th, 2012, 11:56 PM
I would most likely say your confused at the moment... i think honestly though once you have experimented with both from the thoughts you are already having you may be gay...i wish you the best of luck

ExhibitG
January 20th, 2012, 08:37 PM
So I've been thinking that I was bicurious this whole time and I will eventually be straight later on, but the gay part just doesn't go away.
My sexuality is starting to clarify I think.
I've been saying I'm physically/sexually attracted to guys and emotionally attracted to girls. But I was thinking, maybe I'm just saying that because I know being gay is obviously not socially acceptable as much as being straight.
I've been checking out guys a lot lately...having sexual thoughts about them...thinking that this guy or that guy is hot or cute or whatever. I do the same thing with girls too but not as much as I do with guys.

I also asked myself, Would I rather kiss a girl or a guy...My mind said guy.
Would I rather have physical affections with a girl or a guy.. My mind said guy again.
But then, I asked myself, Would I rather commit to a girl or guy..My mind said girl...

I started to have conflict in my head, thinking WHY ME.

What do you guys think is going on for me?

i'm in the EXACT same boat. i can't believe how much this describes me.

Rayquaza
January 21st, 2012, 06:22 AM
Sounds a bit like your hormones playing up. Your best bet is to wait and keep exploring your sexuality until your mind is made up. I used to be like you, but then the physical attraction for a guy went away and now I'm straight.

Electra Heart
January 22nd, 2012, 12:06 AM
Sexuality is a tough thing to figure out, no one's a 100% gay or 100% straight. Just give it some time.