My Ex

[butty_92]

What do people make of a girl that dumps me because her mum found out about a relationship, when she didn't want her to? Yet, her mum knew about her past boyfriends. My girlfriend kept telling me I was special, and she would tell her when I was ready. I disagree and thought it would be better to be open, considering she is 22 and I'm 20.
I wanted this to be a proper adult relationship. Then my family took things into their own hands and told her mum, since then she's defriended me on Facebook and wants nothing to do with me. Is she worth the bother? It's really depressing me and making me lose focus on my university work. It's hard enough for me as it is being in a relationship because I have asperger's syndrome.

[bena3217]

well if she really said she doesnt want anything to do with you there is very less you can do...if you can get her to meet you somewhere and talk it out and things go okay then it might be worth the effort but if she disrups your studies when she doesnt even talk to you...she is defenitly not the effort worth and if you were that special to you she wouldnt have done it in that way and it tells you alot about a person...if she did it like that she is not the effort worth! there are many other girls out there but rather concentrate on school at the moment till you figure things out

[butty_92]

Thanks. You're right, she isn't worth it. She valued her mum's protection and it always came first over me. She told me that her mum would go mad if she found out, so she has gone and lied to her mum and denied we were ever in a relationship, despite the fact we kissed and did other stuff. That's what has hurt me more than the fact she dumped me.