Bicuriosity is bullshit

[Thylacine]

I don't believe in bi-curiosity. A dated a guy and he was all "I'm sure I'm bi.". I kissed him and he pushed me away. I was so confused and I didn't understand. Bi-curiosity to me is a cruel idea. If the person actually likes both then they're bi. But for god sake I wish this culture of experimentation and 'curiosity' would stop. At least in the context of taking people out on dates. If you're 'bi-curious' playing with people is not only unfair it's cruel. I really liked this dude. He assured me he liked me. First date he turns around and bites my ass. You're either bi or you're not in my opinion. In my opinion: Bi-curious people, sort your shit in your head before you go breaking hearts. I'm fine with your experimenting and liking both in your head but unless you can actually be confident don't inflict yourselves on others. It's not fair. Don't use us as your experiments.

What do you think? Do you think it's okay for bi-curious people to date people to experiment and work out their sexuality with the full knowledge that their interest is only surface deep and they could hurt people?

[DerBear]

How is it a cruel idea, it is the same idea with any kind of relationship except he was unsure where his sexuality lied your what 16 he is prboably the same? confusion can happen when it comes to this.

Any break up or rejection in any kind of relationship is tuff on both or one person, so ou should not blame people who label themselves as this sexuality because it happens to everyone of all sexaulitys

[Swagamemmnon]

Many people need the experience of experimentation to determine their sexuality, while others can figure it out on their own. Maybe that guy was not sure of his sexuality (although he appeared outwardly confident) and is still not sure whether he is bi or not. Many people who identify as one sexuality may have conflicting feelings at some point in their life, so maybe this is what he's going through.

[Joshh97]

He's just a time waster or not ready. Just go get laid by someone else and rub it in his face :D


Please note ignore all of the above, I'm in a foul temper. :D :D :D

[LuckyLuke]

This isn't all that different from a normal breakup. He wasnt interested in you sexually and he discovered that. It happens and it's not fair of you to be angry at him for something like this. I see WHY you're angry but you need to understand that it's a difficult time in. His life and he didn't know what he want.

Good luck and best wishes.

[CookingHead]

More often than not, being bi-curious mean that you're still confused. I know some people who were "bi-curious" before deciding that they're not really bi.

[CookingHead]

More often than not, being bi-curious mean that you're still confused. I know some people who were "bi-curious" before deciding that they're not really bi.

[TheMightyBruce]

Also be sensitive of whats going on in his head. I recently discovered I was bi and I feel like I would behave exactly like him in his circumstance whether its because of denial or if he truly just didn't like what happened.

[Thylacine]

He was scared... I was upset... Sorry guys. I was just upset :(

[Joshh97]

Did he tell you he was scared? :o

[Human]

mad?

don't hate on every bi-curious guy

[DarkNick]

Look people are acting weird and different in situations like this...
Bi-curiosity is something bigger than what it seems...The person who feel that is bi-curious might be really confused or depressed about his/her sexuality confusion so if they react a bit strange it's 'caused by this confusion that exists in their head...You can't really blame them for that...You might think that they might be selfish for doing something similar to what happened to you but it's not...He was just a bit scared probably and he needs time and distance to realise what happened.
Don't get mad at him and give him some time. Then ask for answers and then act as you like...

[colinbirddaword]

You cant say you like something until you try it. And maybe it was the fact that you kissed him on the first date and he didn't want to move that fast? Don't hate on bi-curious kids and say what they are is bullshit. That's just not cool bro. I get that you're mad but don't take it too far.

[Thylacine]

I kiss people on the first date all the time. I am so confused >< I am a whore. That's it!!! VT IM A WHORE!!!

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

I kiss people on the first date all the time. I am so confused >< I am a whore. That's it!!! VT IM A WHORE!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6HulYqIqQM
I'm sorry. I couldn't resist. There's a funnier one somewhere, couldn't find it...

Now, seriously, I don't think you're a whore. Some people move faster than others, some like to wait a while before making any sort of 'Move' it's possible that he was very nervous and was made very uncomfortable.

[caden048]

dont hate on people period its stupid and wrong

[Jupiter]

I'm sorry that he hurt your feelings, but some people are undecisive, and aren't completely devoted to their sexuality, and would like to explore before they do stick to one forever.

[Lawrence P]

In humans Development we have yet to fully accept ourselves. Some people are just scared simply because they don't understand themselves.

He may like you he just may not know how to accept it with himself.