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TheHumanSpirit
January 12th, 2012, 06:48 PM
I'd like to think of myself as a helpful friend, but I don't always know what advice to give, so I need your help!

One of my best friends is good friends with a guy he tells me he's really into. He told me that he didn't originally like the guy, but after getting to know him he started to crush on him more and more. He says this guy has never had a girl friend and has never been on a date. He also says he's 99.9% sure this guy is gay; however, he doesn't think that the guy he likes would want anyone to know that. In fact, the best friend I'm talking about has only told me that he likes another guy. He says he makes it pretty obvious that he wants to hang out more with his friend, but that friend seems completely indifferent.

What should I say to my friend who clearly needs some sort of guidance?

ElMonstruo
January 13th, 2012, 12:20 AM
Before your friend tries anything he should test he waters with some indirect questions about gay or not. If yes he should go really slowly it will be a bit weird for both of them to be in first gay relationship.

TheHumanSpirit
January 13th, 2012, 12:28 AM
Thanks, I will him know.