Do I tell her or just kill the feeling?

[Scoob]

Well, I'm really not sure how to start this out so I guess I'll just run through the basics. I'm a guy who is basically head over heels for a stunning, smart, and amazingly funny girl. We hang out a lot, talk often and flirt from time to time. Unfortunately she recently started going out with someone. Now I hate to say I'm jealous but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't. We still talk and flirt and all that but it's died down significantly. What's real bad for me is that I've had a crush on her for a while but I really don't know how to go about asking her out. I'm not really the most emotional guy - especially since my mom died - so it feels weird to lay out my feelings for her. Not to mention the boyfriend thing.

My main problem is that honestly she's like the only thing on my mind anymore. Has been for a while but ever since she started dating it's got progressively worse. Now when I see her in the hallways with him I actually get angry, especially when she smiles at me and such because it just reminds me of what he has and what I don't.

So what I'm asking is, what should I do? Either buck up and pray to god they break up so I can tell her my feelings or just give up and save me the trouble of being sappy and all that?

[ImCoolBeans]

Well, speaking up while they're dating might just end up in you getting hurt, but if you sit back and stay quiet you might also feel hurt. If you really feel that strongly about her I think you should tell her. Its your call, bud. Best of luck.

[black thirteenth]

This is really down to what you wanna do but I'd suggest telling her now but wait till she's alone and just tell her you aren't trying to split her and her bf up )ut you cant waiwt any longer

[Scoob]

Thanks guys I appreciate the compliments. I decided I'mma hang back until they (hopefully ;)) break up. Until then I suppose I'll just act the same as usual with her, although with a little less hostility that I feel I'm giving off when I see her with her boyfriend.

Once again, thanks :).

[Wesley1369]

well i think you need to be there for her as a friend while she is dating this other guy. when that ends though you need to make a move before someone else does.